Disappointed I didn't cum

Tell her that you will give her a chance to make up for it after she is off work.

Tell her you're not 16 anymore

How does a man cum from a lap dance should have been the question.

There is a dancer who I met a few years ago - who was disappointed that I didn’t cum when she danced for me (in a private booth).

It was a morning session at The Hitching Post in Paterson NJ. She was nude - and grinding - sucking and stroking it hard. I knew I had to get to the office - and I had to leave. She wasn’t taking more $$$ - and she laid back on the bench - and she was basically begging for cum on her body. That worked very well - and I came. I then began counting out more cash - and she said no - you paid me already.

I’m still thinking there’s something off with a dancer not taking money. Maybe I’m a well conditioned customer?

Cash: I think it's reasonable to wonder if the dancer has more insidious motives when she turned down money. It does happen at times for perfectly legitimate reasons, including she's playing the long game or maybe she was just in the mood and likes you.

I agree with ski though: i've had thousands of lap dances and i've never come from the grinding. i'm not sure if i should be proud or if that's a curse 😜

Last time I left the Kwik-E-Mart they told me to have a nice day. I suspect they really didn't care.

She must have mistaken you for lapdance king. c:

It happened to me 3 times. They did not ask extra cash . Dancers were just in mood that they wanted me to cum so badly. One dancer didnot allow me to suck her tits. I told her is she allows that I may cum.But she did not.
One dancer asked me to cum when she I was sliding on her boobs

Fuds99 you are right, she was playing a long game. She and I have since OTC’d several times, and we’ve had a good time.

She has an intimate relationship with my wallet and it’s been quite draining (in a good way).

Isn’t she a sweetheart Loper?

I've, at various times, responded with "I prefer a little more interaction before I climax, and you're not as stimulating as you obviously think you are!" There has also been an occasion or two after some snark on my part that the interaction improves - much to my surprise!

One of my all time favorite interactions ITC occurred with a babe that I told had struck out with me on 3 straight pitches (occasions). No more chances and we were done! A couple of weeks later (she had changed her look) and tried again and I laughed her away. Long story short, she believed she was hot enough, but not hot enough for me. Turns out that she altered her entertainment approach and was hot enough for me one classic evening.