Two mask lap dance?
gSteph
The view from the other side of the room
I’m thinking this Covid thing is going to be around for some time. And that in some places, at some times – between the intersection of health or club policy, patron caution, and dancer comfort level – the choice may be no lap dance or a dance with each wearing a mask.
I had such a lap dance couple weeks ago. And am very aware of what was missing. The bare face motor boating, the nuzzling of cleavage, the chance to kiss under and side boob, the feeling of nipples across cheeks, nose, and lips. And gazing at a (entire) pretty face atop a fine body. But – it still had plenty of two-way contact, fondling from calves to collarbone, butt squeezing, lots of hugging, a great grind, and a fine session of mutual nipple play. And the visual wow of a nearly naked, pretty woman. So, it was worth it to me.
Some will disagree. “If I can’t get at least LFK and some fingering, I don’t wanna (pay to) play”. For me, such an attitude would be unwise. In my real (married) life, nipple sucking plays a major part in the fun. But when our kids were babies, and nursing gave her nipples all the workout they could take, nipple sucking for fun was mostly off the table. Did I give up sex with wife because one aspect of pleasure wasn’t available? Uh, NO, simply enjoyed other aspects of our lovemaking.
My opinion. So, what do you think? Would you consider buying a 2 mask lap dance?
I had such a lap dance couple weeks ago. And am very aware of what was missing. The bare face motor boating, the nuzzling of cleavage, the chance to kiss under and side boob, the feeling of nipples across cheeks, nose, and lips. And gazing at a (entire) pretty face atop a fine body. But – it still had plenty of two-way contact, fondling from calves to collarbone, butt squeezing, lots of hugging, a great grind, and a fine session of mutual nipple play. And the visual wow of a nearly naked, pretty woman. So, it was worth it to me.
Some will disagree. “If I can’t get at least LFK and some fingering, I don’t wanna (pay to) play”. For me, such an attitude would be unwise. In my real (married) life, nipple sucking plays a major part in the fun. But when our kids were babies, and nursing gave her nipples all the workout they could take, nipple sucking for fun was mostly off the table. Did I give up sex with wife because one aspect of pleasure wasn’t available? Uh, NO, simply enjoyed other aspects of our lovemaking.
My opinion. So, what do you think? Would you consider buying a 2 mask lap dance?
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I didn’t want to be the sole person wearing one and I had dances on multiple occasions and never got sick. Now that is is mandated and enforced, I feel a little safer that both parties are wearing one.
It will take away from some of the fun, but i would still buy
. (PAPERS PLEASE.)
It is bad enough now with peoples’ faces hidden behind a mask out in public. The lack of feedback (are they smiling, bored, angry etc) when dealing with people is really starting to bother me. I was in a sports bar a few days ago and they were playing a nice selection of music, there was a decent sized crowd and the waitresses were all young and attractive. Of course the waitresses were all masked up and the crowd was, by government mandate, separated by 6 or more feet. It was FUCKING DEPRESSING!
There is movement in opening borders that are experimenting with rapid testing as an entry requirement. Not full proof but with tests down to 1-3 day turn around (from three weeks) there is hope and if they could get the time down to something like testing for blood sugar (mostly immediate results) then a lot of things could possibly change.
So it may not take until a vaccine is developed or until the virus’ threat naturally abates (which it should if history is the judge) but as lame as strip clubs had already become, I won’t be wasting my time in a masked club.
Dances with masks definitely felt more 'transactional', with less of the 'pretend (temporary) emotional connection' that is a (sometimes major) part of the fun.
Oh well, situation kinda sucks, but it is what it is.
Most skiers stop skiing moguls in their 30's due to the pounding. Wife and I still ski them in our 60's because that's skiing to us. Just like no masks full contact dances is strip clubbing. When we can't ski moguls, we won't start skiing the groomed; we'll stop skiing and golf. When I can't get maskless dances, I won't start accepting them masked, I'll golf, ski gamble or read a book.
Why settle for something you don't want? Why not just find something else to do?