Strippers vs bartenders

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GGCx2
New Jersey
This has probably been discussed before so fuck it. Even though I'm relatively new to attending strip clubs, I have paid attention to the culture for some time. I think I see it more prevalent on the east coast, specifically ny more than anywhere, bartenders becoming the main attractions for these clubs. Years ago " startenders" were kinda novelty experience for awhile until you started getting the Bernice burgos' of the world. Now it seems that's all the clubs will promote and push.
I already see the issues stemming from that. They've created a tribal mentality where its bartenders vs strippers. The money distribution is unstable and sometimes mass chaos especially if dudes is making it rain. The other issue I'm having from this rivalry is that most of these bartenders look way better than the strippers! Literally have the work done of a stripper just to bartend. That makes me forsee a future where no girl would strip but would rather bartend. I'm rambling but I see this as an issue that'll get worse until we're paying bartenders for drinks and $60 for a behind the bar twerk. What do you guys think? Any experience with a club like this?

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NJBalla
5 years ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5vJiwkt…

Vice did a documentary on this. I don't go to clubs like this because Im not interested in bartenders or to see dancers on stage. I go to clubs to have beautiful women keep me company and give me high value lap dances. The sad reality is most of the woman at these clubs are mentally distressed. The fighting, instagram posing, and fakeness kills them inside. If you want to stay in this game for a while Id suggest you go through this phase really quickly and find the hole in the wall places where beautiful women perform in a laid back atmosphere. And dont ask what types of club I recommend lol. check my history.
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Muddy
5 years ago
Imo any club where the bartender is the “star” is gonna suck big time
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twentyfive
5 years ago
^ that’s not true Muddy, some of the bartenders are good at getting customers in, there was one gal I knew that used to do a text blast on her shifts with pics of the dancers that were in on that day, she always had a packed bar and this was a good club.
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Subraman
5 years ago
I don't have any firsthand experience with this. But as a grizzled veteran PL who knows exactly what he wants -- lots of table time and private time with an attractive 20-something who I can actually touch -- I don't have any use for hot waitresses or bartenders. Out of the crew I go SCing with, there's one guy who tends to fixate on the hot waitresses and bartenders, and I bust his balls about how weak-minded he is for falling for "she's untouchable so I want her" when there's so many hot chicks around who he CAN touch.

I also don't want hot bartenders bringing in any more guys, I don't need the club filled with even more sausages. I don't want the place full of guys there for the bartender, who also turn their attention to the strippers -- I seek out slow shifts on purpose.

I sympathize with the strippers for being resentful over the hot bartender phenom, but that's none of my business. I only care about how it effects me, and I can't imagine it'd be anything but a negative for the way I like to SC.

I don't blame the clubs for doing this -- they're a business, and the times they are a-changing, so whatever they need to do. Just doesn't feel like a model that benefits a PL who is focused on experiences with strippers
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Icey
5 years ago
I think this is the case at a lot of higher end clubs, bartenders and waitresses look better than dancers...But even at other types of clubs, they can easily make more money than the dancers. I think the reality of a strip club is everyone is just out for themselves....
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bullzeye
5 years ago
Never run into this myself.

I mean, I’d rather look at a hot bartender than an ugly one, but I’ve never seen or heard of a bartender vs dancer battle.

Definitely have seen some bartenders I would like to get a dance from but often the bartenders are retired dancers themselves. I have heard of and seen some bartenders who like to jump into VIP dances and make some extra $$.
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GGCx2
5 years ago
@njballa- I agree 1000% the "low end"spots tend to be the best times. I'm in newark I still gotta hit those other hot spots tho.

@subraman- I just hope it don't affect the stripper draft pool so to speak

Appreciate the input folks!
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