Ever Been Approached By a Newbie as a Newbie?
Dlee954
Thread was likely made before. I’m on vacay and since I moved farther north from The Body in Miami, I don’t go as often. SCing down in SoFlo is a revolving door so a few times I’ll have someone new to The Body coming up to me asking if it’s my first time and jump straight to SS. It’s annoying and amusing before I tell em that I’ve been here for years. Lol
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So it's quite common to be asked by a noob dancer if it's my first time at the club. When I explain that I've been a customer for decades, I will often then be asked "how often do you come here?"
My answer is always the same: "About 3 out of 5 times." Then I grin at her and wait. And wait. And wait.
And that's how I know she's not only a noob, but she has yet to gain an understanding that the path to my wallet goes through my zipper (or through the pant leg of my shorts).
He's not trying to make her fall in love and ask to become his girlfriend. Because that's what this tactic can lead to
LOL. I’m going to have to remember that one.
Since I am a relative newb myself, I don’t know if they were newbs themselves, but I get that type of question fairly often. So far I’ve been truthful and just say it’s my first time there or not very often or something. Is that a bad thing?
We all get that type of question often. My sense is it's partially just obvious smalltalk -- we're two people separated by decades in age, the club is one of the few things we have in common. And, it's partially sales qualification -- just like PLs can use the fact that a stripper is new to try to manipulate her, strippers use the fact that a PL is new to target her hustle towards him.
I typically just tell the truth, even when I'm new to a place. I'm a pretty hardened PL who knows what he wants out of my SC trip, and isn't going to get manipulated by lines or newbie hustle, and in addition I've always done my research on a new club so I know what dances cost, so I'm not scared of getting newbie lines or quoted dances at a higher price -- if she does that, it lets me know to dismiss her immediately before I have to put in more time.
Hell, first time in a club, I ALWAYS take the stripper up on an offer for a club tour. I realize, of course, that this is a manipulation and sales tactic on the stripper's part. But this isn't my first rodeo, I don't get pressure-hustled into buying anything... and the tour of where all the booths are and their costs is appreciated. And if she turns out to be a cool chick, I'll invite her to sit and have some drinks, and might end up getting dances with her later on