The Bargirl Dilemma
Cristobal
I give in to sin because you have to make this life livable
I really enjoy my mongering haven TJ Mexico but I have a possible semi-dilemma approaching and I would like some mongering insight on different methods of handling the situation.
At HK I have a CF who I plan to visit on Tuesday evening but there is another bargirl who I've kept in contact who will be working there too on Tuesday evening.
The 2nd bargirl was supposed to be leaving Sunday but she told me she decided to stay one more week.
On a Tuesday evening the chances are pretty good of the second bargirl seeing us because their shifts overlap and since it's less crowded they only open the main rooms and 2nd floor, making it a smaller venue and easier to see people.
The earliest I will be in TJ is 730pm, the 2nd bargirl's starts at 9pm, my CF likes to order a few fichas before we go arriba so the chances are good I will see the 2nd bargirl.
While I don't expect any real drama, I do not want to damage my chances with the 2nd bargirl for future visits.
At HK I have a CF who I plan to visit on Tuesday evening but there is another bargirl who I've kept in contact who will be working there too on Tuesday evening.
The 2nd bargirl was supposed to be leaving Sunday but she told me she decided to stay one more week.
On a Tuesday evening the chances are pretty good of the second bargirl seeing us because their shifts overlap and since it's less crowded they only open the main rooms and 2nd floor, making it a smaller venue and easier to see people.
The earliest I will be in TJ is 730pm, the 2nd bargirl's starts at 9pm, my CF likes to order a few fichas before we go arriba so the chances are good I will see the 2nd bargirl.
While I don't expect any real drama, I do not want to damage my chances with the 2nd bargirl for future visits.
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I gotta get my ass to TJ.
The times my CF wasn’t there she would keep me company and rest her head on my shoulder, they both where smoking hot, but I had history with my CF.
Anyhow one time that the current favorite didn’t show I took her to the VIP and the rest is history, she was a better GFE. The next time I visited they both were there and she still let me know my CF was there and encourage me to see her.
I did go with the CF and she was upset that I had seen somebody else, and her performance was up to the new one. Next thing I did I aske the new ford for OTC, she said she couldn’t do it, but think about it. She texted me a week later to let me know she would like to try it with me.
We did OTC every weekend for a couple of years. The best GFE of my life, that is why to this day she is my ATF.
To answer your question; The girls know we have other partners; wives, girlfriends, other girls etc. and some know how to “share” but some don’t.
You might suggest the threesome, but if that is not your thing, since you know them and I hope you have ther numbers, you can stay at your hotel and call the first one up, and after you are done take a shower and call the next one up.
I now prefer OTC GFE with a DS NSA, my Holy Grail.
I just don't like the idea of twice the price for half the fun.
The 2nd bargirl is hotter but my CF bargirl provided a better overall experience.
I like the idea of the attention too but I've put plenty of time and money (amongst other things) into both bargirls, so I want to keep both around.
Porque no quiero pagar el doble del precio por la mitad de la diversión.
I like setting up visits as the familarity enhances the experience.
I didn't mention it in the original post but I plan on staying TNL with my CF bargirl, so calling the 2nd bargirl up is not an option.
Plus, the issue is really about the 2nd bargirl seeing me with my CF.
If I understand you are only worried the 2nd girl wil see you on Tuesday and would want to be with you, but you will be busy with your CF and get offended/mad/upset and not want to see you later.
Can you text the 2nd girl in advance “I am sorry you told me you were leaving and made plans for Tuesday with someone else, and I don’t want to brake my word. Please let me know in advance when you come back and we will meet for TLN if you like/want/can.”
That way is not a disagreeable surprise.
“All I have in this world is my balls and my word and I don’t break them for no one. Do you understand?” ~ Tony Montana
I hope you have a good night with your CF and set up a fun future TLN with the 2nd girl, because a good part of the fun ina the anticipation, like a kid waiting for Christmas.
Please let us know what happens.
Thank you for sharing your experiences.
Interesting solution.
I like the idea of being proactive rather than reactive.
I like having appointments when I visit, I have more fun that way.
I agree with the premise "that hoes only care about your money" and if they see someone they perceived as their customer with another bargirl (affecting their money) there could be drama.
It should fun.
Surprisingly, my CF bargirl decided to skip work and came directly to my room, thus we didn't go to HK and the potentially akward (at best) meet up with the 2nd bargirl was averted.
I have a meet up set up with the 2nd bargirl on Sunday night.
More good news: while my CF bargirl was sleeping at her room, I visited HK bar, talked to a very beautiful spinner, exchanged numbers to set up a future appointment.
It was a win, win, win visit.
It was a very good visit.
Just keep April in mind, one week in paradise.
Do you find that most bargirls exchange phone numbers without hesitation? Most strippers here in the States are hesitant about it unless it’s a burner phone. It took many visits to get my ATFs phone number.
The chicks on Country's profile are the chicas he didn't bang, lol, read his HK reviews he was partying with the HK 10s.
I am glad it worked out well for you.
I prefer and recommend OTC, I don’t care for the “party” atmosphere and noise of the clubs, once I find a FAV I try to move thing to OTC as soon as possible, but if I am going to do ITC with or without extras, I try to set an appointment and go see her and leave.
I am glad you are setting appointments with other girls. Just keep your eyes open and trust your spidy sense and gut feeling.
I hope you are going to write an article to tell us all the details of your experiences, so we can live vicariously through you.
As always be careful out there.
The vast-majority of dancers know most guys like to sample at least sometimes and that is part of the business - at best they may be upset they are losing a sale (if only temporarily) - sometimes they fake "jealousy" but that IMO is most-often just a show to manipulate inexperienced-PLs and RILs. - i.e. IMO/IME it's rare a dancer will blackball a custy and not take his $$$ in the future b/c the custy went w/ anther girl - sometimes the PL playing the field actually causes a fave to up her game to get him back - so this "guilt" of being concerned/afraid of what a dancer will think b/c one goes with another dancer is not really that sensical IMO
From my experience, bargirls provide their numbers if you ask nicely.
That's great you are looking out for @Bavarian
This weekend I will be looking out for myself too but I will see if any fit @Bavarian's profile too... Lol
Please don't live vicariously through me, enjoy TJ for yourself.
My style of mongering only fits me and it evolves after each experience.
I really didn't want to find out if my 2nd bargirl was the fake or real jealous type, thankfully I was able to avoid a problem rather than try to fix it.
I agree with you too, it probably was all in my head but I'm sure glad I didn't have to find out.
I don't want to sound facetious, but humour is the key to the soul. You know what I mean?
Thank you, I believe HK/TJ doesn’t have a lot of my preferred Marilyn Monroe types.
Also while it is wise to learn from experience, it is sometimes wiser to learn from the experiences of others.
I hope you are having fun, be safe and careful out there.
I agree, sometimes it is wiser to learn from the experiences of others; however, sometimes you just have to experience life.
No matter what you read or see online, there is nothing like being in the Zona Norta, and to this PL there is no way to describe walking through the HK curtains and seeing the plethora of attractive women willing to go arriba with you.
I've been there too many times to count and my heart still races when I walk past the curtains.
“I've been there too many times to count and my heart still races when I walk past the curtains.”
Let's assume he meant to say haggling instead of price gouging. For the Tijuana market, $100 for a 30 minute arriba is the highest price. Prices range from about $10 for a street girl, to $40 to $60 for most bar girls at bars other than Hong Kong, to about $80 to $100 for the hottest Hong Kong girls.
I know Hong Kong girls that are under the age of 30 and retired. Ones who own multiple houses paid for in cash, luxury vehicles, etc. Them charging $100 and not budging on price is almost the equivalent of them price gouging gringos. $100 in Mexico is close to one week's salary for most Mexicans. 95% of all chicas working in Tijuana would jump at an $80 offer. It's only a select few that are demanding $100 and refuse to budge on price. Most girls throw out $100, but gladly accept less. I wasn't suggesting haggling with a $10 street girl or $60 bargirl. I was only suggesting not overpaying a girl who is demanding a high premium, when she can afford to buy houses in cash, luxury vehicles, and plastic surgery because she's already rich in her own country.
Good luck with your crypto Dougster.
Any suggestions for a day or two visit in Baja?
Some have suggested Ensanada.
Since then no one has asked for more than $100, quite a few very attractive bargirls start their offers at $80, it's all good.
I should have clarified, just looking for a nice spot to relax, no mongering (though if the situation presents itself, who I am to deny it).
Have any of the TJ hounds ever taken a chica on a day trip? How much did you pay?
Cabo is really expensive for clubbing compared to TJ. Girls asking for 500 and up a lot of places. Okay if you just go to drink and for the atmosphere though. A great vacation destination.
Closer to home, I hear Ensenada is a nice little getaway to relax. I've only been once briefly on a cruise layover, but I'm planning to visit for a few days this spring to check it out further.
I have gone to Playa del Carmen and Tulum by myself and it sucks ass. Not doing that again.
Yeah, the trips with a bargirl is another topic all on its own.
From my experience, if you float the idea during the conversation they will tell you what you want to hear (bgs) so I will take them arriba.
They will initially make it sound so easy but when it comes time to do it, excuses galore and the price changes, like OTC with strippers.
Hot Brazilian women in thongs. A huge group of young women from Monterrey that all looked like models. I even saw American women topless in Tulum beach clubs.
It never hurts to ask about the daytrip. Some girls have just arrived and don't know anyone. They might welcome a trip to Ensenada on their day off, especially if they can make a little money. Most like to either relax or do something fun on their days off. Getting out of Zona Norte for a bit is appealing to them as well. You could also tell her she's welcome to bring a friend as well. That might make her more comfortable., because then she can enjoy her day off with a friend as well. Never hurts to ask.
This was before the age of enhancements.
More beautiful, bikini clad women than I could comprehend, I wish I knew then what I know now.
https://www.google.com/search?tbm=isch&s…
It sounds like @misterwonderful is content with just banging bargirls at HK.
Cristobal and Bavarian, you motivated me to finally book my Ensenada trip. Going next week for a few days. Taking the ABC bus down and will try that seafood tostada cart that Anthony Bourdain made famous. Will also try to check out one of the clubs down there that is supposed to be pretty good. Will report back next week to tell you how it was.
We could see who can find the hottest bargirl for the best value, true monger style.
Looking forward to your review of the chicas and the food in Ensenada.
especially the pink tacos.
i have mine picked allready. and NO. i ain’t telling.