What works better for you: hookup apps or hookup sites?
madgracy
Belgrade
In the past 4-5 years, I tried (and I am still using) at least 15 hookup apps (https://www.dailydot.com/irl/hookup-apps…) and a bit more sites (https://onenightstand1.com/sex-hookup-si…) to arrange hook-ups.
Tried almost everything but now I am on 4 hookup sites and 2 apps (Tinder and Pure). For me a bit better are sites than apps, I am having an impression that is a bit lower competition on sites. On the other side, I have an impression that 9/10 and 10/10 guys, bang all girls on apps.
I am interested what working better for you, when it comes to finding some casual sex partners: sites or apps?
Tried almost everything but now I am on 4 hookup sites and 2 apps (Tinder and Pure). For me a bit better are sites than apps, I am having an impression that is a bit lower competition on sites. On the other side, I have an impression that 9/10 and 10/10 guys, bang all girls on apps.
I am interested what working better for you, when it comes to finding some casual sex partners: sites or apps?
16 comments
The problem with sites and apps is that they're over saturated with men.
One time, me and my girlfriend did an experiment where she made a Tinder profile and kept it up for 8 hours. In those 8 hours, she had over 3000 likes. Say a girl really wants to meet someone on there, she's not going to go through all of those profiles..... same with sites, unless you really stand out in some way the odds of even getting noticed are very low.
I think Instagram is actually a good way to hook up, especially if you have at least a little clout on there. Maybe even FB. Some place where you can have initial interaction with a girl and get noticed.
I would think hookup sites like bars over saturated w guys - found it waste of time in 2003.
I've always preferred face to face contact but with the saturation of people and fake accounts I doubt I would ever try online dating/hookups again.
The sites that work the best are those where you have something in common and some kind of incentive to communicate, plus they show a lot more of what a person really is than a dating profile. Having some kind of communication, like in person, is what catches interest. Not just a random message on a dating app/site.
EVen if there are more guys than girls in a bar, you still have a better chance than online. She sees you in person and its easier to make a decision or to get someone's attention.
Its interesting though, how people are so anti social on dating sites/apps.