He asked me where else in austin I wanted to.explore I told him his bed and he t

And he asked me if anything was off limits**

Yeah, but judging from your taste in women, what kind of guy do you consider cute???

I think thats the wrong way to go about it. Whatever happens, has to happen naturally. Saying what he can or can't do is a turn off, it makes it too clinical. Just go with the flow.

@icey I was mistaken about the meaning of "anything off limits?" With do u have any limits

That distinction made me realize what he was truly asking...so I told him I'm.not gonna talk to anymore even tho he's handsome :((

So I told him in not gonna talk to him any more **

Like I'm not a toy with parts u can play which u can ask "so which part of you can I use as I much as I want"

Get the fuck out .

It does sound clinical but I dont care..cuz clinical can sound very respectful.I only stopped talking to him not bc he sounded clinical but bc he sounded objectifyijg

I think the most respectful thing is having the common sense to just respect boundaries and not bothering to ask when you realize timing or the vibe isn't right. Anything intimate has to be organic, it just has to flow.... you can't just go for someone with the intent of doing something, or paying them or whatever. If it happens it does, if it doesn't it doesn't...let flirting build suspense.