Unexpected extras but not full extras
larryfisherman
California
Any of you ever get dances from a girl just expecting to get dances (it’s not VIP, no negotiating beforehand, no expectations) and she’s ends up giving you “dances” as in extras?
It’s not planned or anything, it’s kind of like in the heat of the moment. You don’t finish or anything. She might suck your dick for a couple of minutes or she might stick it in her for a couple minutes. Then she snaps out of it lol, tells you to put your dick back in your pants, and the rest of the time it’s just dancing.
Do you tip her extra?
It’s not planned or anything, it’s kind of like in the heat of the moment. You don’t finish or anything. She might suck your dick for a couple of minutes or she might stick it in her for a couple minutes. Then she snaps out of it lol, tells you to put your dick back in your pants, and the rest of the time it’s just dancing.
Do you tip her extra?
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Yes, I was an idiot. I should have paid her for the dances, gone to a pharmacy to get some condoms, and come back to fuck her, even if I did have to pay an additional $14 cover charge (with 1 free drink). At the time, I was making myself smell really good with cologne and body wash and shit and figured it was because of my smell that I was getting sex in a strip club. I've learned that those songs are expensive at $50 a pop with half of that going to the club (their bouncer also counted songs).
Second time I had it happen was in the VIP section with a much hotter chick. Still no talk of it before hand. She went down for a bit, and FS for a few minutes. I didn't tip her after the dance, but I tip her well out in the club
I didn't tip for the extras but I took her to the VIP and finished up what she started, one of the most passionate FS I've had. So it was a win, win.
Second time It was summer and I was wearing loose shorts; was wrapped to prevent mess from a handy. When she feels me wrapped, she pushes my shorts up higher, turns in reverse cowgirls and puts me in. Then she looks over her shoulder and says, "You'll tip me, right?" Right. Next time I was in that bar she was gone and other girls told me owner had been cracking down on extras. Got it just in time.
Can you make my head even fatter than it already is with your load? I spend all day pimping hoes and pretending I don't have a penis cause that's what a good pimp does. But damn I need some release somehow?
At a club which I frequent regularly, two of my dance partners have simply unzipped me, reached in, and given mister happy a handshake. With one I finished, with the other she got annoyed that I didn't and "promised" that next time she was going to make sure of it. And at other clubs, when it goes well, I've gotten close to that.
Different for each of the occasions, but one important point: I clicked with all the women. They were people with whom I "got along" not only in (1) the sense that I was a good little high-paying PL who was going to buy a lot of dances from them regularly day after day (although, yes, that certainly was the case) but also (2) in the sense that I was someone who could genuinely make them laugh, enjoy drinking or not-drinking while watching TV, and hear about their gripes and their lives outside of the strip club. We "got along." They therefore helped me to "get along" a bit extra in the VIP.
No extra costs. Neither time did the women involved ask for more money or somehow treat it like it was somehow above and beyond the call of duty relative to what would have been reasonable expectations. For each, in fact, I was in the area of the club where it is generally NOT expected to get extras, because the club has a much more private area (with high cover charge) for that. And for each, the girls were secretive about what they were doing for me, clearly hoping to make sure that the bouncers didn't notice because they'd be told to stop (or, to go hire the more expensive area, I suppose).
This doesn't happen for tourists, as far as I know. You have to be where the club is located for several months running, visit the club regularly, get to know the people. You have to earn trust from staff, bouncers, owners, whoever might be watching, AND earn good graces and approval from dancers, AND enough good graces and trust from the dancers that they think you've earned that trust from the staff too, AND ... etc..
It's in the hands of fate. I don't think you can just "decide" to go do this and cause it to happen. It's icing on the cake, you either get it or you don't by pure serendipity, although only if the situation has been adequately prepared. (For me, "fate" was not one of the dancers' names. Har har. Get it? "In the hands of fate" hahhaha ok never mind.)
You select and approach the girl, then front room makeout session, then invite her to the back room for a first round, then take her home with you and keep on seeing her regularly to continue.
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I excused myself and went to the restroom for a couple of songs. When I came back, we did one last dance for him (with it all tucked back away). I made $140 and she made $180.
So she didn’t even get tipped extra for her efforts. And that was the last time I saw that regular. I wouldn’t be surprised if he had scheduled us to show up at the same time on purpose lol.