Test drive 6/7’s or 8/9’s?
wyohio
New York
I’ve learned over time that it’s more important for me to get great mileage (not necessarily extras but makeout sessions, really enthusiastic use of my package as her personal dildo, etc.) from a “hot enough” girl than it is to get ok service from the hottest girls in the club.
Of course the ideal is to get that type of service from the hottest girls, but if I don’t have the time to test drive all the girls I’ve started to place my bets with girls who are 1) in the solid 6 or 7 range vs 8 or above and 2) don’t aggressively approach me with a sales pitch.
This seems to for the most part yield good results, especially when I stick to the script and move on quickly when I’m not getting what I want. Am I right in thinking that there’s a correlation there or am I just selling myself short by not going after the hottest girls in the club?
Of course the ideal is to get that type of service from the hottest girls, but if I don’t have the time to test drive all the girls I’ve started to place my bets with girls who are 1) in the solid 6 or 7 range vs 8 or above and 2) don’t aggressively approach me with a sales pitch.
This seems to for the most part yield good results, especially when I stick to the script and move on quickly when I’m not getting what I want. Am I right in thinking that there’s a correlation there or am I just selling myself short by not going after the hottest girls in the club?
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That said, there is something about a 9+ who gives 9+ services, that is heart-poundingly magical. Don't ever give up seeking that, IMO.
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SJG
san_jose_guy - commonly referred to as SJG this forum member is usually mocked or ignored, his comments should NOT be taken in any way as legitimate
Probably not a good idea to completely write-off the 8+s - it may require more work to find the ones that will also give good-mileage and IMO there is probably a higher strikeout ratio, but the extra-work can def pay off particularly for those PLs that prefer having faves vs variety and are willing to wait for the right dancer.
And then how she is dressed and painted up is a kind of a window into how she thinks, and a big factor in my wanting to engage with her in the short term.
SJG
I usually go with the dancers that approach me if they're my type bc I figure if they want my biz enough to approach me they will thus show me a good time (not foolproof though).
I generally don't pursue a dancer if she doesn't come my way but being proactive *is* the best way to get with the specific dancers one wants, it's just for me personally it's often not worth the effort and I'm content with good mileage from willing dancers that approach me that are my type.
For me personally I don't wanna have to put in any work when I SC nor do I interact much with dancers beyond dances/VIP, thus I don't have to find the best dancer to spend all/most of my visit with and rather sample as many dancers as I can that are my type.
No way to know for sure which dancers give good mileage by just looking at them - sometimes one gets a hunch by the way they carry themselves but that's just a hunch - sometimes one gets a chance to see how she dances for others but that may not necessarily be the way she dances for you (he may be a good spending regular, etc), but still is a decent barometer.
So I don't have a system per se but one rule of thumb I have is if she's standoffish pre-dances then I may pass - e.g. if she does not like me touching her pre-dances that gives me the impression she's a dud and likely I'll pass - but this is not foolproof as some dancers are touchy-feely then turn out to be duds and sometimes standoffish dancers can turn out to be good - but generally if I'm feeling her up and she moves my hands or backs away I tend to not deal with her.
Other SCers that specifically look for that one dancer for a visit may have a better system which probably includes interacting with the dancer for a longer period of time over drinks which I don't do bc I'm into variety vs spending a lot of effort on just one dancer.
The reality is the SCers that go after what they want usually have better results getting what they want - i.e. if you don't want to waste money/time with trial-and-error, then tell her upfront what kinda experience you want and go with the ones that agree and not with the ones that don't agree (with the caveat that the more you want beyond a standard lsp-dance the less takers you may have).
I tend to find that girls who push themselves really hard up front fail to deliver, but I have had exceptions and as you stated, seems that the best way to check is to ask for what you want and either get a firm answer or pass. I’ve also had standoffish dancers in the front turn out to be really good, but have never had a dancer who objects to me being hands on in the front turn out to be what I want.
I tend to try to build rapport in the front as my favorite experience is when things really click and a good conversation over a beer turns into her being all over me in dances, but if I’m honest with myself, that spark (real or acting on her end) is either there after a few minutes or it’s not, I don’t know how to manufacture it.
I think my biggest area for improvement is self discipline and really recognizing what works for me. If I find a girl attractive but feel like I’m doing the heavy lifting in maintaining a conversation, cut it off and just try her for dances. Unless it’s a complete air dance, which is very rare, I never consider a couple of dances a waste of money. I also have to get better at cutting off very average dances after a song or two. I’m too apt to let it stretch on in hopes that it gets better, especially with girls I find really attractive or like their personality. I’ve had dances start Good and move to great with more songs, but I’ve never had things move from mediocre to very good.
Sorry for the rambling, I appreciate the advice.
More consistent outcomes is why many SCers go with the fave model and focus their SCing around the fave or a couple of faves and often ignore the rest.
Getting what I want from an 8+ typically requires more time, effort, and money. If I'm on a schedule or not a regular, I go with a 6/7.
That said, I'll still try for an 8+ on occasion because it's great when a gamble pays off.