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What Happens When A Dancer Falls In Love With A Customer?

GACA

Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.

What Happens When A Dancer Falls In Love With A Customer?

Whodey asked I'll explain....

Stage 1:
Generally she will be in her later 20's, this is important as at this point she's generally experiencing declining returns and hustling harder to make rent. She's had a kid or two who is about 5-7 years of age who is asking more questions about what she does at work at night. And finally, the thrill of dating the guy who only gets off the couch to beat on her, cheat on her, and go to jail has started to wane.

You walk into the club and have an inner city urban flavor about you, but are obviously well-off enough to drop some coin and have a slight air of sophistication about you.

You obviously have been in the strip club game for a minute as you don't wait for the SS and get straight to business with a dance or two. This ghetto fabulous vibe immediately and instinctually places you in potential future replacement baby daddy material in her maternal mind

Next she follows you back to the bar as she's deciding she's going to drain you of a few more dollars at least, and judge to see just how much you are into her. So you start to chat about the date you're about to go on, tell her she's so hot she has you tempted to cancel. More conversation and drink ensue until she reminds you about your aforementioned plans.
You excuse yourself while gesticulating the need to make a phone call. Disappear for 20 to 30 mins, and reappear at the bar. She'll see you and smile and ask what happened to your date, and with a very coy smile you'll reply that you found a better date.

Love springs.

You'll spend another two or three hours drinking talking and tipping on stage and leave before closing.

Stage 2:
Ah, the "WYD, come see me" text the very next day. You say you absolutely want to but today is hang time with your boys.

Shell continue Texting sporadically trying to convince you all night to show up, while your just at home or maybe a bar. Then at half past midnight, pushing 1am, you show up.

She tells you she didn't think you were going to show up and she so happy you did. More talking and drinking ensues. Less stage tipping this time around but omg the petting, lite kissing and blowing off of customers. She wants to know when you are coming again, gives you her work hours and any planned off days so you don't show up accidentally.

She only text WYD the next day, you only reply working; then after a few seconds, you text, and thinking of you. She text you to come to the club yet again, but you can't as you're flying out of town.

Stage 3:
She's waited to text your for two or three days until she breaks and asked when you're gonna be back in town. You're not going to be back (until your bank account allows) for a couple more days, and how you wish you could quit your job this second to be closer to her. You mention you have to see her and make OTC plans after (or if she has a man during) her next shift.

You OTC, hit the shit out of it, and she said she never wants to leave. You call an Uber and sender her on her way.

Next day she's texting she wants to see your OTC again. You let her.

Then some time a week later unbeknownst to you she has moved in with her kid and only dances occasionally. Sure she cooks and cleans but hardly ever works anymore. She has a list of customers who she can ask to send cash and she relies on them, but since she isn't paying rent or any of the bills that's all extra money now.

Then She gets on Facebook and tells everybody she knows that you two are getting married next month. But you're too smart for that, so you tell her you would like to have a long engagement travel the world and push the wedding off till next year.

The End