Ghosting a dancer
jackslash
Detroit strip clubs
Last month I met a dancer and spent money on her every visit to the club. "Candy" is blonde with big tits and is DTF--everything I usually want in a stripper. But I soon grew tired of her. When she came to my house for OTC, I found her face did not look that good in normal light. And then she sent me a couple texts with drama, which is not what I want. So last week when she texted me about meeting ITC or OTC, I replied that I was tied up. Not true. I went to the club on a day she did not work.
Monday of this week she texted a couple times, and I did not reply. And again today she has texted me about seeing her one day this week. I'm thinking I won't reply to her at all and let her reach the obvious conclusion.
However, I feel a little guilty about ghosting someone. It's an easy, non-confrontational way of ending a relationship. But I'm usually honest and upfront with people. Dancers, on the other hand, have ghosted me in the past and didn't seem to have any qualms.
Should I continue to ghost Candy or just tell her I'm not interested any more?
Monday of this week she texted a couple times, and I did not reply. And again today she has texted me about seeing her one day this week. I'm thinking I won't reply to her at all and let her reach the obvious conclusion.
However, I feel a little guilty about ghosting someone. It's an easy, non-confrontational way of ending a relationship. But I'm usually honest and upfront with people. Dancers, on the other hand, have ghosted me in the past and didn't seem to have any qualms.
Should I continue to ghost Candy or just tell her I'm not interested any more?
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In other words you can’t pull a Casper on Candy!
(honestly, there's a serious lag when I hit the 'submit' button now. I've double posted a few times as a result)
"They".
SJG