ok so this happened to me, fr, fr: for real, for real. i attended a business conference out of state,once. while there, i ran into a civvie chick. eventually we hit it off. we had chemistry. on the final day of the conference, i had like a little time before my flight back home, she says she's DTF before i jet, and calls me over to her hotel room. she shows me she got on no panties and we're seconds away from smashing.
i don't remember how in the world, but suddenly in conversation, seconds from smashing, it's revealed that we live in the same state. matter of fact, she lives in a different county and small world, she knows like 20 people personally that i know personally, though we've never met before. she found it funny. but suddenly, i wasn't interested in being DTF anymore AT ALL. i was plenty shook. and i skidaddled out of there and went for my flight. yep, she was plenty disappointed and hasn't spoken to me again.
would ya'll have smashed? we were seconds away. i mean, she spooked me how she knew people in my life better than i did. like i had a buddy in college for example, but he was her neighbor growing up. i had a co-worker i hung out with and she was her best friend when they were in like in 4th grade but they lost touch. she found it funny. i completely didn't. and it was like 20 folks. we were on the hotel bed, ready to go. i completely tucked tail and ran. it wasn't that she wasn't attractive. but all i could think about was her telling all 20 folks we knew that we smashed. and if i was good or not. i'd rather she tell everyone i was a coward. lol.
bet the rest of yall woulda smashed, eh
this only would matter big time if you are married. if not then it would make interesting convo for the day with certain friends you are comfortable telling them this type of thing.