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would you still be DTF over this civvie...?

gothamyte
from that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
Sunday, April 22, 2018 9:13 PM
ok so this happened to me, fr, fr: for real, for real. i attended a business conference out of state,once. while there, i ran into a civvie chick. eventually we hit it off. we had chemistry. on the final day of the conference, i had like a little time before my flight back home, she says she's DTF before i jet, and calls me over to her hotel room. she shows me she got on no panties and we're seconds away from smashing. i don't remember how in the world, but suddenly in conversation, seconds from smashing, it's revealed that we live in the same state. matter of fact, she lives in a different county and small world, she knows like 20 people personally that i know personally, though we've never met before. she found it funny. but suddenly, i wasn't interested in being DTF anymore AT ALL. i was plenty shook. and i skidaddled out of there and went for my flight. yep, she was plenty disappointed and hasn't spoken to me again. would ya'll have smashed? we were seconds away. i mean, she spooked me how she knew people in my life better than i did. like i had a buddy in college for example, but he was her neighbor growing up. i had a co-worker i hung out with and she was her best friend when they were in like in 4th grade but they lost touch. she found it funny. i completely didn't. and it was like 20 folks. we were on the hotel bed, ready to go. i completely tucked tail and ran. it wasn't that she wasn't attractive. but all i could think about was her telling all 20 folks we knew that we smashed. and if i was good or not. i'd rather she tell everyone i was a coward. lol. bet the rest of yall woulda smashed, eh

17 comments

  • rattdog
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    6 years ago
    this only would matter big time if you are married. if not then it would make interesting convo for the day with certain friends you are comfortable telling them this type of thing.
  • gothamyte
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    6 years ago
    and keep in mind..it matters exactly WHO she knows in your life. the entire conference and it never came up where we were from. we were both single, no problems there. but seconds away from smashing, i think she recognized something in my clothing that reminded her or saw something in my briefcase or something that sparked the convo of hey where you from again? i don't know how i'd feel if i found out after we smashed. and like i said, it was like a string of 20 folks she knew that i knew. but it was like she knew them better than me. all this seconds from smashing. could you still smash? when previously, you assumed she was just a regular, anonymous civvie...
  • gothamyte
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    6 years ago
    thinking back, now, i remember the nail in the coffin that totally made me stop was when she was like, oh if you know bobby you must know susie (which i did) which is why the # of people was so high, if you knew 1 person, you knew of the others who were associated with them and she was like, i was just talking to susie on the phone this morning. i'm gonna call her back and tell her i know you! and i was like, oh no you won't. nothing against susie or anybody it was just too much for me to find out at once. people who weren't anywhere in my mind at the moment, and suddenly i gotta start thinking about them. and neither of us had condoms at that moment, who knows what was going to happen, but neither of us had condoms. and even tho at that time i was std free, i kept thinking god forbid she gets some sort of stripper rash from me and tells all 20 people. i always still regret not smashing free civvie pussy, tho....
  • Dblednmike
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    6 years ago
    You’re both single and you didn’t hit it because she knew people you know.... SMDH!!! That’s usually a good indicator of someone you want to hook up with.
  • Uprightcitizen
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    6 years ago
    Dude soo many what if's? Unless you are married or have a serious gf I just dont get why you bailed? You really embarrased her so there must be more to this story. Have you have sexually trained yourself through strip clubs to only get turned on by anonymous pussy or something?
  • PaulDrake
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    6 years ago
    Sounds like you were really horny and ready to go. Then the discussion was distracting and you lost your boner. Then it was awkward so you bailed. Nothing wrong with the first two part but I would bet if you had hung around and relaxed everything would have been fine.
  • rh48hr
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    6 years ago
    I don't see the issue. You could have had a regular fuck buddy going forward. Who cares what the other people think. I think you overthought this one friend.
  • gothamyte
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    6 years ago
    didn't lose my boner. when it seemed we know the same people, now i had to rethink and be like damn, i'm gonna have to sex her good. i can't just relax and hand over some normal sex with a stranger. we know the same people. i wasn't planning on putting in A+ work. you meet a 1-night stand at the bar, you're not thinking about putting in all types of work. you just wanna have casual sex fun. for me, at that moment, it was easier to cut & run instead of stick around and try to impress her with knock-out sex. but i can see how mongering with strippers all the time, skewered my decision-making. sex with strippers, shoot, you don't have to impress 'em and who's gonna believe 'em if they told anyone? so, who cares? but a civvie...well...
  • twentyfive
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    6 years ago
    You’re becoming a fucking troll ! I call bullshit !
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
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    6 years ago
    "...be like damn, i'm gonna have to sex her good..." The 70s porn film industry called. They'd like their dialogue back.
  • grand1511
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    6 years ago
    I would have capitalized the first letter of my sentences.
  • Dolfan
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    6 years ago
    I would have. I actually have in somewhat a somewhat similar situation. If I never slept with anyone who knows the same people as I did, I'd probably have only slept with strippers. The no condom thing is a bigger issue, I may have passed on that basis.
  • shailynn
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    6 years ago
    Still unclear. Are you married, is she married?
  • Cashman1234
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    6 years ago
    The deciding question remains - were you married or in a serious committed relationship at the time? If the answer is yes - and your pants were already around your ankles - then you are fucked either way. She knows enough folks to make a mess of your life by sharing the story to just one of the 20 friends you have in common. If the answer is no - then there’s no reason to not fuck her. If you fuck her well enough - she might tell a friend - and you might get some more pussy from other girls who hear about it. I was in a committed relationship with a college girlfriend - and I fucked a girl without knowing anything about her. It turns out - she was at a party and met my gf - and the other girl was very happy to tell my gf how well I fucked her. It wasn’t good for my relationship with my gf. But I ended up getting more pussy as the girl enjoyed telling the story of how I fucked her.
  • abqspencer
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    6 years ago
    Unless she was ugly in same way, would have smashed as long as possible before time to catch the flight.
  • Jascoi
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    6 years ago
    oh man...
  • Dblednmike
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    6 years ago
    Oh, not to make you feel worse, but now she’s probably telling those same people you were worried about that you’re gay.... Why else would you have bailed on free NSA pussy?
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