would you still be DTF over this civvie...?
gothamyte
from that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
i don't remember how in the world, but suddenly in conversation, seconds from smashing, it's revealed that we live in the same state. matter of fact, she lives in a different county and small world, she knows like 20 people personally that i know personally, though we've never met before. she found it funny. but suddenly, i wasn't interested in being DTF anymore AT ALL. i was plenty shook. and i skidaddled out of there and went for my flight. yep, she was plenty disappointed and hasn't spoken to me again.
would ya'll have smashed? we were seconds away. i mean, she spooked me how she knew people in my life better than i did. like i had a buddy in college for example, but he was her neighbor growing up. i had a co-worker i hung out with and she was her best friend when they were in like in 4th grade but they lost touch. she found it funny. i completely didn't. and it was like 20 folks. we were on the hotel bed, ready to go. i completely tucked tail and ran. it wasn't that she wasn't attractive. but all i could think about was her telling all 20 folks we knew that we smashed. and if i was good or not. i'd rather she tell everyone i was a coward. lol.
bet the rest of yall woulda smashed, eh
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i don't know how i'd feel if i found out after we smashed. and like i said, it was like a string of 20 folks she knew that i knew. but it was like she knew them better than me. all this seconds from smashing. could you still smash? when previously, you assumed she was just a regular, anonymous civvie...
and i was like, oh no you won't. nothing against susie or anybody it was just too much for me to find out at once. people who weren't anywhere in my mind at the moment, and suddenly i gotta start thinking about them. and neither of us had condoms at that moment, who knows what was going to happen, but neither of us had condoms. and even tho at that time i was std free, i kept thinking god forbid she gets some sort of stripper rash from me and tells all 20 people.
i always still regret not smashing free civvie pussy, tho....
That’s usually a good indicator of someone you want to hook up with.
Nothing wrong with the first two part but I would bet if you had hung around and relaxed everything would have been fine.
you meet a 1-night stand at the bar, you're not thinking about putting in all types of work. you just wanna have casual sex fun. for me, at that moment, it was easier to cut & run instead of stick around and try to impress her with knock-out sex.
but i can see how mongering with strippers all the time, skewered my decision-making. sex with strippers, shoot, you don't have to impress 'em and who's gonna believe 'em if they told anyone? so, who cares? but a civvie...well...
The 70s porn film industry called. They'd like their dialogue back.
The no condom thing is a bigger issue, I may have passed on that basis.
Are you married, is she married?
If the answer is yes - and your pants were already around your ankles - then you are fucked either way. She knows enough folks to make a mess of your life by sharing the story to just one of the 20 friends you have in common.
If the answer is no - then there’s no reason to not fuck her. If you fuck her well enough - she might tell a friend - and you might get some more pussy from other girls who hear about it.
I was in a committed relationship with a college girlfriend - and I fucked a girl without knowing anything about her. It turns out - she was at a party and met my gf - and the other girl was very happy to tell my gf how well I fucked her. It wasn’t good for my relationship with my gf. But I ended up getting more pussy as the girl enjoyed telling the story of how I fucked her.
Why else would you have bailed on free NSA pussy?