This might be the hardest challenge. Not for faint of heart.
On your next visit to strip club, decide to play "stripperweb posterboy" - a decently dressed customer who pays money just for the company of a dancer.
So inside the club, you settle down with your favorite drink while enjoying the view on stage(s) and pleasant scenery around you. In time, you have an acceptable dancer on your lap (either summoned by you or a fly-by). Let's call her Tifanny. You are finally ready for a dance. Say this - "I need a dance" [Say exactly this. Never, Ever say I need dances!] Tifanny gets ready to start. Add this - "Gosh Tiffany, you are so hot, and sexy - I'd pay you just to hang out with you." "Anything else you are gonna do is just Bonus." "Gift from god." "In fact - Ima gonna keep my hands behind my back" And then (1) smile and (2) ease back. And (3) relax.
Report results here.


If the dancer has not walked off writing you off as a "FREAK!" - things are going well.
Always start with one dance only. Not just for this challenge - but always. Really - ending of the current dance tells me if I enjoyed and only then flag dancer for "one more dance please". Dancer will give twice the effort when she thinks the current dance is the last dance - and she must earn the next one. Plus subsequent dances get better and better. Until they stop getting better. And then you stop and thanks dancer for her performance. Dancer leaves very satisfied thinking "gee - I turned one dance into 4 from a tough and fair customer. I must be something."