Time for Multiple Choice Quiz ;)... When you find out a girl is a Stripper: Do y

Funny thing long time ago I met a girl on the beach I’m talking at least 15 years back got her phone number and dated her for a while it wasn’t until I knew her for a good 6 months that I found out she was a stripper. At first it was A but after a while it turned into B Funniest part about this is we’re still friends after all this time , she’s still a stripper and there are two other regular members here that have met her but I never told them the backstory. They’ll probably figure it out now. ;)

Finding out she's a stripper:

1. Makes her sexier and more desirable to me
2. If I had any romantic rather than sexual feelings for her, the romantic feelings disappear

This song pretty much tells how I would feel.

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hmmm.....bang her as often as possible.....

yes.

Has happened once. A co-workers wife was in an amateur contest in Key West. Decided to give it a go in Miami. No change in my level of attraction. But it did explain the boob job.

Haven't had this happen. I guess it would all depend on my relationship with the person to really determine my reaction.

Same as twentyfive, I dated someone years ago that I didn't know was a stripper at first. It was a blind date set-up and we hit it off. Dated for a couple months and and I knew she worked in a bar but I thought she was a waitress or maybe a bartender. Wasn't till after we broke up I found out.

I’d say - A.

Years ago, at a friends house, I was introduced to a girl (a few years younger than I was). I can’t explain why, but I totally ignored her. She definitely had a sexy body. Each time I was near this girl, I basically ignored her, as though she didn’t exist. I later found out that she was a stripper. She approached me as I was leaving my friends house, and was totally perplexed as to why I ignored her. I told her, that she was totally self-absorbed - totally focused on her looks - and she needed attention. She was pissed! I continued walking out to my car - not thinking much of the girl.

The next day I get a call from this girl. She wants to meet me to prove I’m wrong! She got my number from my friends wife - and she had to set things right. I told her she wouldn’t change my mind.

We met at her place - and I ignored her rants. I drove her mad - and then I fucked her like a whore and left. She called me and told me - I treated her like a whore. I told her to not flatter herself - as she had a long way to go to compete with the fucking ability of a whore. She was a blonde with big fake tits - who didn’t work for it in bed. It was fun teaching her a bit about fucking like a good filthy whore!

Sadly, I was married at the time, and couldn’t train that blonde slut properly.

So, to answer your question, yes. I might handle the stripper differently - but I’d find that hot.

I've dated two strippers in my life and two escorts and by dating it means money didn't change hands to spend time together although in the case of both of the girls who were strippers I originally met them through SA.

The one told me she was a stripper by inviting me to the club and told me it was a bar--when I got there I found out it was a strip club and she was a dancer. She sent me a text a few weeks ago out of the blue after not seeing her for well over a two years--really odd. I don't think it changed my impression of her for the good or bad. She was a nice kid but we were different people. For her the answer is C.

The second is the ex I reference on here in my comments. She started stripping after we broke it off a couple of years ago. I kind of knew something was up with her, occasionally she would send me a text and she was different. For whatever the reason she wasn't the same person ( and this was before I knew she had started stripping)

I had actually gone back to clubs after not being inside of one for years and she put the full court press on me to take her back--spent a weekend texting me --at the time she had moved away because she didn't want anyone to know she had started stripping for a living but wanted to move back home. In her case it changed things although I would state it had more to do with the changes in her than how I viewed her. So in her Case D

I think it would just amplify whatever I had thought about her before.

If I was previously attracted to her, it would likely lead to me fantasizing about her.

If I didn't find her attractive, I'd probably think she'd have a hard time making money and might even pity her.

In my mind it improves her, makes her sexier. But I also don't think this is that common, meeting strippers for the first time, but outside of any strip club.

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I think A. It tells me she is very comfortable with her sexuality and probably has a fun wild side. It probably increases my interest in her if she is hot.

I would introduce here though one caveat, with a true civvie, they will likely remain sexually faithful through life's ups and downs. My ex was such.

But with a sex worker, so much of their identity is bound up with sex appeal, that they will likely stray at the first sign of difficulties.

And case in point, Taxidriver recently posted about a girl who had steadfastly declined all P4P offers, but then a fight with the BF and she is raring to go and she pulled out all the stops.

So you have to accept that it will be like this when getting involved with one.

SJG