What is the optimal number of times to see a stripper or an escort?

“Any” given stripper, not “and”.

Can't speak to escorts, but It took a year of seeing my then CF for the fun to really reach it's peak. I mean it was fun the entire time but I guess she really finally just gave in entirely and, well the sex went from fun to amazing.

God do I miss that girl... Oh well.

I guess my perspective would be a little different, since when I find a dancer I like, I'll try and stick with her.

That said, I like the slow build-up, so I would concur with your 3-5 visits to get pretty well acquainted and comfortable. If she makes the cut at that point she'll transition to a long term fav (those usually last 8-12 months)

I stay with a stripper until it takes more than three songs to LDK with her or when a better one comes along. There's no set time or # of visits with me. I've been with my ATF DS for 1.5 years but with other favorites is has been about half a dozen visits before I moved on.

1-2 visits. Based on all you TUSCLer feedback I tried to give the whole CF (or ATF) thing a go. A lot of you seem to really be into it. I really don’t see the point / the juice isn’t worth the squeeze, from my point of view. My visits are so spaced out, months or years apart, that I rarely even see the same dancer more than once. Not that developing faves does have benefits or isnt worth it for some. It’s just not important to me at this stage in life.

i agree with sirlapdancealot. the optimal number of times is as long as you want.

i can totally understand why someone would want to try different dancers, but one of the advantages of having a favorite--is that they treat you better once you've become established with them. i can have my CF in my lap for an hour before we even go back for lap dances. stuff like that makes my visit more enjoyable

I don't want a "GF" in or out of the club - I've always liked women (plural) and prefer to be with as many as.possible, vs as little as possible via a fave

Depends on your tastes and variety needs and stripper personality. I have favorites at a couple different clubs and have enjoyed them off and on for a few years. I don't always dance with them, but I know what to expect when I'm with them and I like that comfort.

In my 7+ years of going to clubs, I only had one CF/ATF that I went to see regularly for a while. It was around this time last year that I met her. I continued to go see her in the club about once a month. The first 5 visits were great. Then things plateued. She was doing everything she could do without breaking the club's rules. I wanted something from her I knew I wasn't going to get, so I tried a few other clubs and the girls in these clubs gave me exactly what I wanted from her, and on a few occasions, I did not have to spend as much as I was spending on her. I still liked her enough to go back to her club and see her, but I suddenly noticed her approach being more business like and I no longer enjoyed going to see her despite the fact she still gave great dances.

Before I met my ATF, my club visits are very much like Papi's. I would spread my money out among several girls and not apply the favorite label to any particular dancer. At a few clubs, there were girls that gave great dances and therefore I would always get a few dances with them, but it never got to the point where I would spend the majority of my money on them.

But since my experience of spending a ton of money on one girl led to me going to extras clubs and indulging in extras, my approach is now to get the best of both worlds. If I am going to spend hundreds of dollars on one girl during a club visit, I better be getting extras from her. Otherwise, I will just get a few dances with several girls.

@GoVikings my ATF DS makes me feel like a king and super stud from the moment I arrive until the moment I leave and ultimately that is why I never tire of her. (Well, that and she is also a super hot and sexy 9+.) The entire night is a fantasy experience with her, and she does everything right by me the entire time, including the little things. To start the night, immediately as soon as she is available, I get dick teasing time at the bar with her for anywhere from 20 minutes to 1.5 hrs before we get dances. And I am talking full on, keep my boner raging hard the entire time, dick teasing time too. And then following that, when we get dances they are very high mileage and she wants me to LDK hard every time. And for examples the little things she does are she rubs my balls as I am LDKing, and also if I LDK mid song she will give me a slow and sensual post LDK titty fuck for the song's remainder that makes my toes curl and my eyes roll. And she smiles at me the entire time.

If another stripper were hotter than her or did more for me the entire night as she does, I would consider leaving her. I have tried others too, but I can't find anyone better.

Depends on what you want, where you see it going. I would say escalate to overnigthers, and what car key wallet dating as you like, and of course get it so that you are giving her money, but not literally paying for her time by the hour.

SJG

Totally depends on the girl. But there will be a point where I am tired of her.

I enjoy that magical second-to-fifth trip, where you are just building a little trust, she's still new enough to get that heart-pounding new girl feeling, and there's a high learning curve where each time she's raising the stakes.

BUT! I like it even better 10 times in, when she knows every one of my weird kinks and pervsions and is starting to cater to them. Even better, 20 times in, after we've thoroughly explored all my weird kinks and we're starting to dream up new ones. I find the excitement level can continuously raise for a year, or more if she's adventurous ... you lose the new-girl excitement but it's replaced with dirtier and more adventurous sex

seems like three with most the girls.