What is the optimal number of times to see a stripper or an escort?

Feb 11, 2018, 11:32 AM

It’s fun initially meeting a good stripper that I want to repeat with but there is always a learning curve with every new stripper. On the other hand, too much familiarity can sometimes lead to boredom, baggage, flakiness or the stripper assuming too much and just mailing it in.

I’m wondering what others think is the optimal number of encounters with and given stripper itc, otc or with an escort. It always varies, of course, but I find 3-5 visits seems to be the most fun, most of the time. We’ve gotten pretty well acquainted and comfortable but she is usually still trying to be her best. After that, things tend to wane, for a variety of reason.

I’m curious what others think.

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Huntsman8 years ago

“Any” given stripper, not “and”.

GACA8 years ago

Can't speak to escorts, but It took a year of seeing my then CF for the fun to really reach it's peak. I mean it was fun the entire time but I guess she really finally just gave in entirely and, well the sex went from fun to amazing.

God do I miss that girl... Oh well.

PeterEaster8 years ago

I guess my perspective would be a little different, since when I find a dancer I like, I'll try and stick with her.

That said, I like the slow build-up, so I would concur with your 3-5 visits to get pretty well acquainted and comfortable. If she makes the cut at that point she'll transition to a long term fav (those usually last 8-12 months)

Dominic778 years ago

1-2 visits. Based on all you TUSCLer feedback I tried to give the whole CF (or ATF) thing a go. A lot of you seem to really be into it. I really don’t see the point / the juice isn’t worth the squeeze, from my point of view. My visits are so spaced out, months or years apart, that I rarely even see the same dancer more than once. Not that developing faves does have benefits or isnt worth it for some. It’s just not important to me at this stage in life.

GoVikings8 years ago

i agree with sirlapdancealot. the optimal number of times is as long as you want.

i can totally understand why someone would want to try different dancers, but one of the advantages of having a favorite--is that they treat you better once you've become established with them. i can have my CF in my lap for an hour before we even go back for lap dances. stuff like that makes my visit more enjoyable

Papi_Chulo8 years ago

I don't want a "GF" in or out of the club - I've always liked women (plural) and prefer to be with as many as.possible, vs as little as possible via a fave

rh48hr8 years ago

Depends on your tastes and variety needs and stripper personality. I have favorites at a couple different clubs and have enjoyed them off and on for a few years. I don't always dance with them, but I know what to expect when I'm with them and I like that comfort.

s275ironman8 years ago

In my 7+ years of going to clubs, I only had one CF/ATF that I went to see regularly for a while. It was around this time last year that I met her. I continued to go see her in the club about once a month. The first 5 visits were great. Then things plateued. She was doing everything she could do without breaking the club's rules. I wanted something from her I knew I wasn't going to get, so I tried a few other clubs and the girls in these clubs gave me exactly what I wanted from her, and on a few occasions, I did not have to spend as much as I was spending on her. I still liked her enough to go back to her club and see her, but I suddenly noticed her approach being more business like and I no longer enjoyed going to see her despite the fact she still gave great dances.

Before I met my ATF, my club visits are very much like Papi's. I would spread my money out among several girls and not apply the favorite label to any particular dancer. At a few clubs, there were girls that gave great dances and therefore I would always get a few dances with them, but it never got to the point where I would spend the majority of my money on them.

But since my experience of spending a ton of money on one girl led to me going to extras clubs and indulging in extras, my approach is now to get the best of both worlds. If I am going to spend hundreds of dollars on one girl during a club visit, I better be getting extras from her. Otherwise, I will just get a few dances with several girls.

san_jose_guy8 years ago

Depends on what you want, where you see it going. I would say escalate to overnigthers, and what car key wallet dating as you like, and of course get it so that you are giving her money, but not literally paying for her time by the hour.

SJG

Warrior158 years ago

Totally depends on the girl. But there will be a point where I am tired of her.

Subraman8 years ago

I enjoy that magical second-to-fifth trip, where you are just building a little trust, she's still new enough to get that heart-pounding new girl feeling, and there's a high learning curve where each time she's raising the stakes.

BUT! I like it even better 10 times in, when she knows every one of my weird kinks and pervsions and is starting to cater to them. Even better, 20 times in, after we've thoroughly explored all my weird kinks and we're starting to dream up new ones. I find the excitement level can continuously raise for a year, or more if she's adventurous ... you lose the new-girl excitement but it's replaced with dirtier and more adventurous sex

Jascoi8 years ago

seems like three with most the girls.