Why do women who hate men this much . . .

papi already answered this in another thread... b/c in many cases it's actually better than what they are leaving behind.

Because they hate working a regular job a lot more. Assuming that they can hold down a regular job.

Because a lot of cheap limp dick fragile ego mf go to strip clubs and act exactly this way... Makes me hate men too and I'm one if then

And because poor behavior is never acceptable even if it happens with some frequency at a certain location. That's like asking why poor people still live in ghettos when there is high crime graffiti and overall bad feelings all over the place. This country is a mess it's meant to keep poor people down and poor girls working in strip clubs

As you can tell I lean a little left and socialist in my beliefs

Just bc some women hate men doesn’t mean they hate sex. Plenty of men hate women and still want to fuck them. What’s so hard to understand?

Never thought of it that way. Good point. Glad that's not me, though. Don't think I could enjoy sex with women if I hated women.

^^^Many men do hate women and enjoy fucking them. It’s a power thing, the same is true of women.

They are reliving their trauma because they haven't realized yet, or don't want to realize, there is another way. It's partly about confirmation bias.

In clubs - some customers act like assholes. Not all customers - but some. If a dancer is unhappy with her job - it’s easy for her to focus on the negative aspects of the job. It’s similar to other jobs where there is a high level of customer interaction.

The anchoring bias is evident. People tend to hold onto the negative aspects of something and obsess about it.

You find this a lot when someone has a loss in investments, relationships, or purchasing something and having buyers remorse. Strippers will vent on you about that one customer who was an asshole, and forget about the 10-15 polite patrons who ogle after them tipping onstage and begging for a dance.

I laugh when people say “I lost so much money in 2008-2009.” No you didn’t, you just choose to focus on that small period of time because people feel the pain of a loss way more than the euphoria of victories.

Working directly w/ the public is often a tough and frustrating job - but strippers complaining about horny guys (asking for sex, etc) is like nurses complaining about sick patients - kinda goes w/ the job.

Actions have consequences - a stripper's job is to turn on men so they empty their wallets on them - but then a stripper should not act all shocked and dismayed about a custy they are turning on that they may wanna have sex, or date her, or w/e.

No means no so if she's not comfortable w/ a custy's demands, then walk away - but wanting *his* $$$ solely on her terms is wanting to have her cake and eating it too.

Basically certain strippers are "I don't want you to do a,b,c,d,...,z" but I want all your $$$