One way dances - are they discriminatory?
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
One-way dances have been discussed b/f, some are ok with them, some don't like them.
I don't like them b/c for me I go to SCs to be able to touch and feel hot women, thus one-way dances I find boring and frustrating and poor value, and I'm made to feel like I'm some kind of wild beast that has to be made to keep his hands to his sides.
But yet the dancer/female *is* allowed to touch - not saying that's a bad thing, but could that be considered sexist, i.e. allowing the women to do something but not the men (given that the dancers are all women and 99% of custies are men) - and I assume one-way dances are so due to local-ordinances vs being club specific.
I don't like them b/c for me I go to SCs to be able to touch and feel hot women, thus one-way dances I find boring and frustrating and poor value, and I'm made to feel like I'm some kind of wild beast that has to be made to keep his hands to his sides.
But yet the dancer/female *is* allowed to touch - not saying that's a bad thing, but could that be considered sexist, i.e. allowing the women to do something but not the men (given that the dancers are all women and 99% of custies are men) - and I assume one-way dances are so due to local-ordinances vs being club specific.
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To me it's been either a no touch dance or a grope fest by both.
I see the main reasons as being:
a) Anything that primarily negatively impacts men is not discriminatory. YOU DON’T EVEN HAVE TO BEAR CHILDREN SO OF COURSE IT’S YOUR FAULT THAT YOU CAN’T TOUCH DURING ONE-WAY DANCES!!! DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW PAINFUL THAT IS??? STRETCH YOUR DICKHOLE OVER A GRAPEFRUIT AND THEN WE CAN TALK ABOUT DISCRIMINATION AND I DON’T EVEN WANT TO HEAR IT ABOUT THE FUCKING SERPENT IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN.
b) Of course it’s one way in the $25 room. The $100 room is for two way. If you weren’t cheap or gay, that would have been obvious.
c) I’ll make it worth your while. Trust me.
Ok, look, when I said that, I thought you were talking about one way. We can do two way but you’ll have to tip an extra $60 because the bouncer is super jealous after he saw me blow the pizza delivery guy because I hadn’t made tip out yet.
d) We apply the same rules to lopaw and wives when couples come in! (well, ok... we don’t, but they’re women and have the same parts, so it’s really more of a casual thing like how the male customers stroke each others’ cocks in the men’s room)
I've also noticed that most dancers don't really touch during dances outside of motorboating, grinding (and usually not with the pussy) and stick shifting (and not always with the hand). Some might do a little amateur massaging (mostly neck and shoulder), but not much in actual sensual touching. So if i get a very sensual dancer, the one way dance can be quite nice, but at the same time doubly frustrating as i feel she might even appreciate a nice touch herself.
When i first started going to UHM and extras-friendly clubs, a whole new door opened and the fun just became a lot more real. There was a lot more fantasy fulfillment and i just could no longer justify paying similar amounts of money for a much lesser experience. This all came to a head with the current ATF. Yeah, i knew just had to bring her into this discussion. But every other dancer and dance just feels like a lesser experience (if even so slightly) now. Even the sexy new dancer feeling, while usually exciting and nice, is still a lesser experience. It's kind of like being able to rent a Ferrari or an entry-level BMW at the track (where you can actually use them as intended) for the same amount of money. Sure the BMW is still nice, but it just can't really compare to the Ferrari. When you have no choice to take the BMW, it's not a bad car at all, but you just notice things that are different or missing and it's just less satisfying. It's the same way with different dancers and different types of dances.
If one-way contact during a lap-dance really is a deal breaker, I do strongly suggest to stay away from any strip club in Wisconsin. The one thing these clubs do have going for them is that most of them are fully nude stage dancing and they are allowed to serve alcohol (with the exception of Milwaukee, where the clubs are topless stage dancing).
During the time I lived in Wisconsin, it was very clear I could not touch the dancers at any club I visited. I never tried, and I don't ever recall seeing any other customers try either. One club even had signs posted warning customers that touching dancers is not allowed. It would be very common for dancers to grind on me during lap dances, though.
There was one dancer that would do a ton of heavy grinding and a ton of stick-shifting when I got dances from her. I made absolutely sure that I got dances from her when I was at her club, which was easy because if she saw me in the club, she would always approach me first. She was the only one that did stick-shifting, but there were several other dancers that would do some heavy grinding during a lap dance. A lot of them would get me to LDK in just a couple of songs. There were a couple that did find it disgusting, but most seemed to be OK with it. If I had to guess, maybe about 5% gave a negative reaction if I did LDK.
Those days are long gone. After moving to metro Detroit, I soon learned that there are dancers that do allow customers to touch them. It is amazing how your perspective on what is allowed at a strip club can drastically change based on where you live.
"There was a time when i was perfectly content with one way dances. "
Damn, there was a time that I was happy as a clam with air dances.
I'm sure I'd have a different opinion if I were an LDKer, but I'm not. In clubs I can't touch at all, I'd rather just have fun sitting and drinking with her at the table (where, ironically, I can almost always touch her), and work to arrange OTC -- I have no interest at all in paying the club and her for a dance I won't enjoy, I far more enjoy paying her under the table for surreptitious groping and socializing and OTC arranging (and bonus to her -- she doesn't have to split any cash I give her with the club)