In another thread, Doces said "the new whore shine has not wore off yet."
Thought it would be interesting to discuss what factors make the shine wear off faster, or last a lot longer.
One thing that comes to mind for me is the progression through various sex acts. For me, the shine wears off faster if we end up doing "everything" right from the start and every time (like running thru a checklist), vs building up to various stuff and not doing the same stuff everytime.
Time is the #1 thing that can take the shine off a girl. Especially if the only thing holding me to her is sex. Imo there needs to be something more than a great body or bedroom gymnastics. Don't get me wrong, I love those things, but I need to like her on another level for long term. Intellect, charm, common interests, and conversation on other things than the usual SS. Things that can end it rapidly include: drugs in my presence, rip off attempts, begging for money beyond the agreed amount, invitations to meet her mother, etc.
"invitations to meet her mother"
Haha. The woman (30) I was with last night got up after a little while and said "I have to text my mom and let her know I'm here."
In reality, she was letting her know she was at the friend's house she was using as cover, but it was a major WTF moment there for a sec.
The fact that I needed to teach her about having a "go bag" ready in her car took a little shine off, but if she shows up next time with one, following my teaching will put a little shine back on.
A DS never looses her whore shine.
I think "New Whore Shine" needs to be added to the glossary.
When they are consistently late or asking for money can wear it off.
But I agree if there is nothing more than just sex, the shine can wear off quickly. There is a dancer who is pretty much a guarantee for whatever you want at my normal club and I'm pretty sure she is available for OTC.
I've never pursued OTC with her and didn't get extras from her the last time I saw ITC because there is not much to our conversations outside of what is going to occur in VIP. If I was only there for that, she would be fine. But I want more of a GFE.
Especiallly over the long term, the new whore shine isn't nearly as important as that fresh pussy scent.
@rh I ran across a popular Follies extra girl on SA and set up a meet (she was also known for rebuffing OTC requests in the club)
It ended up being pretty much a 1hr escort session, although there were a few non-escort aspects. Mostly about the sex. It was still good, and I might hook up with her again if I'm craving her type (young, thin, horny), but for the same money with an older, not as slim, still very horny girl from SA I got an overnighter with several hours of sex, plenty of fun conversation, sexy texts between visits, etc
So yeah, the "it's only about the sex" vibe from the younger girl caused her shine to wear off pretty quick.
This is where personality actually makes a difference. If I actually like being with a dancer, then I don't get bored as quickly. If I'm getting a lot of SS, money requests, drama, overall bitchiness, etc., then I lose interest quickly.
The shine can wear off immediately if I see her in the daylight and she looks rough. Somehow the darkness of a club will mask many of the unflattering aspects of some shiny new whores!