Hi Gentlemen

Totally possible.
You can go to your local strip club and live it TODAY !!

99 out of 100 times no one will care.
On the off chance you run into an asshole manager just say this -
"wow the atmosphere is so hot I got carried away ... sorrrrry - I didn't think this type of activity was frowned upon". Sit up on the chair, smile, sip your drink and resume enjoying the stage show.

Good luck and tell us how it went.

Wow! Thats the best advice ever!! Im feeling brave and hopeful!

There could be people here who would like to make your fantasy reality, but to do so, we have to know where you are. Maybe you could post that on your profile. And if you do dance at a strip club, maybe you could post link to it in our listings there too.

Welcome to TUSCL and please to keep on posting.

SJG

I dont dance...im just your garden variety milf with a perverted side. Im near Tampa so we do have several clubs to chose from.

Gotcha...its cool

I'm gonna be the party pooper here: Many/most dancers are not fans of hetero female civvies so they'll be more than happy to throw you under the bus if you seem to be actively getting in between them and their money. If you are on the main floor pleasuring your man...and most likely catching the attention of other customers, that means you're taking attention (see: money) away from the dancers/club.

What you want may very well be available to do in a VIP booth (depending on location and dancer), but unlike @roger, I don't think you'll have very much luck any other way.

Only way that's possible is in a private VIP - or you can do a swingers party

This makes sense...so i guess if we kept the dancer tipped and our act as private as possible we MIGHT get away with it...

Though I will say, as far as in public voyeur style fun, then an SC is probably your safest bet. If an extras club, they'd ask you to leave at most (they rather not involve cops there either ;) )

Yeah...we do the swingers parties...lots of fun but NOT a strip club

Not might get away with it, you absolutely would, as long as you negotiate under the exact pretenses thats whats going down. Plenty of dancers in extras clubs would be perfectly fine with that if the tip is right.

I have taken a civvie female friend to strip clubs a couple of times. I have given them orgasms while sitting on the main floor, which can be done more discreetly. But, we've always gone to VIP once we were ready for me to have my fun.

I bet your man would enjoy it even more if he could watch you servicing a random customer like that. You might want to ask him.

flagooner, would you be so kind as to volunteer yourself

First off it's "hi ladies & gentlemen".
Secondly your plan won't fly. You'll be 86'd before he gets his dick out of his pants.

Why not hire some strippers/escorts to go to your house and have that fantasy there? Couples have enough trouble in clubs and its partly because they try to do shit like this. It will just piss off the strippers.

^ hmmmm, now that you suggest it