We need a term for the PL lust when you're trying to get a dancer but she is loc
goosman
On A Booty Hunt
That feeling of "I want that!" when she is locked down with some other dude or otherwise inacessible. I guess PL Lust, but there has to be some better term than that.
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Fucko-ing a dancer is described as using excessive dancer bandwidth, as is the case here.
CP
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Anyway, just my twocents fwiw.
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=4…
1. Waiting List
2. Sloppy Seconds
3. Seafood Buffet Line
4. 2nd Place
On a side note, I just cannot go to a VIP with a girl that I have seen go into VIP with another guy earlier in the night if it's a known extras girl. I just can't. Yes, I know the girl I end up taking probably blew 4 guys a half an hour before I got to the club, but out of sight, out of mind.
Now after years of fine tuning my PL tendencies, I rarely fall into this trap anymore. But it still happens. You notice one goddess when you walk in, and everything else in the club turns gray, and you wait, and wait and wait.
Now, I've learned to just chalk it up to it wasn't meant to be that day, and there will be another day when she's free.
And even if there isn't, there will soon be another hot young thing coming out of the dressing room to dance that will make me forget all about the previous girl I was fixated on.
I guess this irks me so much because some PLS, in their desperation, unwittingly advocate ruining precisely what makes strip clubs so great - the unadulterated capitalism and the freedom of all parties to get whatever they can. Once you turn clubs into wanna dance factories, you where the girls' movements are tightly controlled, you effectively sterilize these clubs.
Fortunately most clubs don't operate the way some PLS would prefer. So if you want me to stop locking down the chick that you want, then by all means become more valuable to her then I am. Otherwise wait until I am done with her. ;)
Obviously enough, for about the last 10 years I'm much more likely -- like 99.9% more likely -- to be the guy bogarting the stripper, than the guy waiting. I think technically, that makes me the schlemiel rather than the schlimazel. In any case, I don't remotely consider myself a whale; I think any good regular (whale or not) knows how to tie up his ATF for a long time. So if we're doing terms that are references to that, maybe something that references "regular", although ex-lax'ed does not have that je ne sais quoi
When that happens, it tends to work out better for me to just cut bait early on, go to a different club and try again on another night. I was talking to a dancer the other night who said two guys were pretty much staring her down when she was with the other and she didn't know what to do. She said she asked a bouncer who acted as referee and suggested which one to sit with.
When I have tried waiting or scooping up a dancer from her regulars by asking her while she is on stage for a dance without her sitting with me trying to sell one, it has generally turned out to be a disappointing experience. When I'm the regular, it works out better for my experience to leave rather than waiting around for her to try every other guy looking for new money.
In any case, I find that it it works best to each visit as a clean slate in non-ROB situations and catch her on a night when she might be more likely to make an effort. If she is always busy with others, that's a sign that it just wasn't mean to be and to move on.
Ya, and the variety guys, and regular-type guys who don't actually go often enough to be highly-valued regulars, are hosed. If you're a regular-regular, and you can manage to get to the club during slow parts of shifts (Tuesday 7-10pm rather than super-busy sausage-fest Saturday 11pm-2am), there's no reason for this to ever happen. Get her number, make an appointment, and as long as your stripper is decent at honoring her appointments, you're golden. As much as we complain about stripper flakiness, over 10 years and a whole lot of ATFs, I find that the girls make it to appointments (albeit late, sometimes) a shockingly high percentage of the time.
So FarmerArt just came up and put $20 into the cleavage part of her top. She jumped to her feet and soon they were in the dance booth and then quickly in the motel room, and then waking up in the morning together.
Lopaw talked about RIL's, who tie up the girls she likes. Regular In Love. Any guy who keeps seeing a girl, but ITC only is a RIL and a PL.
But just feeling the lust, but the girl is tied up. Don't know about that. Just the way it goes some times. But if that situation ensues, usually another girl will see you looking at the one who is tied up, and she'll move right in front of you to block your vision.
The girls have codes of conduct. As long as the other girl is tied up, perfectly fair for a second girl to cut in.
SJG
No gonna lie, I enjoyed the nasty, jealous looks from the custies and her other regulars when I was hogging her in the front of the house. I know, complete dick move, but them is the perks of being the preferred regular.
That said, I vote for "red lobstered."