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"I Have To Stop"...What?

IHearVoices

954 (South Florida)

So I'm at Tootsies last night and I step in the LD area...the girl snuggles up to me a bit while we're waiting for the song and going through the whole 'pointless convo' thing. We're kind of comfortable, but she dang near forgets to start dancing when the next song starts. She does, though; and it's closer to GFE than 95% of dances I've ever gotten at Tootsies. She's on top of me and all, but there's more touching than grinding - enough to the point that I have to initiate grinding more than I'd like to.

It's cool and all, so I have no issue...but then after the second song she says she has to stop. Um, what? She proceeds to tell me she has to stop before she gets wet. No push for VIP, which is what I'd expect in such a situation. She's still nice to me and hugging on me as we leave the area, and I'm trying to figure out what in the world is going on.

Now we all know the girls are there for one reason, which is what makes this so weird. Nothing went wrong during the dance, we got along great, I was certainly willing to spend more, and she stopped. I've had girls tap out before, but that was because they were tired. I've had a girl tell me she was wet before (and put my hand somewhere to serve as proof). Never has a girl just stopped out of nowhere like this.

Not posting to brag on myself or anything like that: just a "WTF" moment.

Bonus: the only reason I even said yes to dances from her was...sigh. I was out there with a friend and his cousin, both of whom are married. Now, my friend has had a lot of issues over the last year and we've never hit a SC together before (he stopped before I started). He'd also never been to Tootsies. I told him the lay of the land and asked him if he had enough cash. Said he was alright. I went to the screen to check for familiar faces and...okay, long story short - he went into the LD room with the one ugly blond chick. If you go fairly often, you know who I'm talking about: the somewhat tall one with the terrible eyeliner job and frown that combine to make her look like a witch. Came back out and she was walking him to the ATM: at that point I knew an intervention was necessary. He got three more dances than he could afford. I paid her and his cousin told her to kick rocks. I then took his card. Of course he was ready to go after that...and the above situation happened because I had to rush and was unable to play my 'passive' game.

So really, last night was full of WTF.

Follies Friday, though. :)