"I Have To Stop"...What?
IHearVoices
954 (South Florida)
So I'm at Tootsies last night and I step in the LD area...the girl snuggles up to me a bit while we're waiting for the song and going through the whole 'pointless convo' thing. We're kind of comfortable, but she dang near forgets to start dancing when the next song starts. She does, though; and it's closer to GFE than 95% of dances I've ever gotten at Tootsies. She's on top of me and all, but there's more touching than grinding - enough to the point that I have to initiate grinding more than I'd like to.
It's cool and all, so I have no issue...but then after the second song she says she has to stop. Um, what? She proceeds to tell me she has to stop before she gets wet. No push for VIP, which is what I'd expect in such a situation. She's still nice to me and hugging on me as we leave the area, and I'm trying to figure out what in the world is going on.
Now we all know the girls are there for one reason, which is what makes this so weird. Nothing went wrong during the dance, we got along great, I was certainly willing to spend more, and she stopped. I've had girls tap out before, but that was because they were tired. I've had a girl tell me she was wet before (and put my hand somewhere to serve as proof). Never has a girl just stopped out of nowhere like this.
Not posting to brag on myself or anything like that: just a "WTF" moment.
Bonus: the only reason I even said yes to dances from her was...sigh. I was out there with a friend and his cousin, both of whom are married. Now, my friend has had a lot of issues over the last year and we've never hit a SC together before (he stopped before I started). He'd also never been to Tootsies. I told him the lay of the land and asked him if he had enough cash. Said he was alright. I went to the screen to check for familiar faces and...okay, long story short - he went into the LD room with the one ugly blond chick. If you go fairly often, you know who I'm talking about: the somewhat tall one with the terrible eyeliner job and frown that combine to make her look like a witch. Came back out and she was walking him to the ATM: at that point I knew an intervention was necessary. He got three more dances than he could afford. I paid her and his cousin told her to kick rocks. I then took his card. Of course he was ready to go after that...and the above situation happened because I had to rush and was unable to play my 'passive' game.
So really, last night was full of WTF.
Follies Friday, though. :)
It's cool and all, so I have no issue...but then after the second song she says she has to stop. Um, what? She proceeds to tell me she has to stop before she gets wet. No push for VIP, which is what I'd expect in such a situation. She's still nice to me and hugging on me as we leave the area, and I'm trying to figure out what in the world is going on.
Now we all know the girls are there for one reason, which is what makes this so weird. Nothing went wrong during the dance, we got along great, I was certainly willing to spend more, and she stopped. I've had girls tap out before, but that was because they were tired. I've had a girl tell me she was wet before (and put my hand somewhere to serve as proof). Never has a girl just stopped out of nowhere like this.
Not posting to brag on myself or anything like that: just a "WTF" moment.
Bonus: the only reason I even said yes to dances from her was...sigh. I was out there with a friend and his cousin, both of whom are married. Now, my friend has had a lot of issues over the last year and we've never hit a SC together before (he stopped before I started). He'd also never been to Tootsies. I told him the lay of the land and asked him if he had enough cash. Said he was alright. I went to the screen to check for familiar faces and...okay, long story short - he went into the LD room with the one ugly blond chick. If you go fairly often, you know who I'm talking about: the somewhat tall one with the terrible eyeliner job and frown that combine to make her look like a witch. Came back out and she was walking him to the ATM: at that point I knew an intervention was necessary. He got three more dances than he could afford. I paid her and his cousin told her to kick rocks. I then took his card. Of course he was ready to go after that...and the above situation happened because I had to rush and was unable to play my 'passive' game.
So really, last night was full of WTF.
Follies Friday, though. :)
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I'm prepared to buy another 5 or more dances from her, but she stops me. She says "I really like you and if you keep spending money on me, I'm going to view you as a good regular customer, and I won't want to lose the income. So, I'm going to stop you now, because I'd like to try dating you." She then gives me her phone number and real name, which are both legit.
We text a little bit the next few days, but she never agrees to a date. She invites me back into the club and I get some more high mileage dances.
I couldn't figure out why she would stop me from spending money on her, if the dating thing was bs. Then, I finally pieced it all together and it made sense.
When we were making out in VIP and she stopped the dances, it was because she had a longtime regular customer who was waiting for her. She didn't want him to wait too long, so it was a good excuse to end the dances with me, keep him happy, and keep me on the hook, still wanting more.
I have to say that some of these girls are clever hustlers. You practically need a PHD in psychology to make sense of their behavior sometimes. And, even then, it doesn't always make sense. It can drive you crazy trying to wade through the stripper shit, so it's probably best to enjoy the moment and assume that most of what they say is just bs.
On the other hand, you should at least know in the back of your head the other possibilities: She felt her period coming on and didn't have a tampon in. She ate some bad burritos and felt the inevitable explosive conclusion coming on. She knew her whale had just walked in and needed to ditch you to go to him. Your breath stunk and she didn't want to put up with one more dance. Bottom line: for whatever reason she wanted to leave, as a smart independent businesswoman, she picked a way to leave you that would leave you feeling great and totally intrigued -- smart on her part, since many strippers handle the exact same situation in ways that leave customers hurt, irritated, or furious. If it were a Stripperweb girl, she probably would have just broken your nose and walked out.
Papi: yup, that's the one.