Why Do Some Girls Sit With You But Don't Ask For A Dance

Because they enjoy being in the personality aurora of a RICH STUD like me.

It could be several things:

* that's their hustle style, they may think if you're interested you will ask them

* they may be inexperienced and thus not assertive enough

* there are all kinds of custies, many complain dancers don't talk to them enough so maybe they figure they (custies) want convo, I give them what they want, if they don't ask me for dances they're not interested

Sometimes I'll ask them for the dance if I really want-them/gotta-have-them but more often than not I just let them go - in my mind if they don't have enough game to be assertive dancers then I figure they don't have enough game to give me good dances

only a couple of times has this come up in my five years experience.

Like Papi mentioned, inexperience mostly.

If you like the girl, just start feeding her some money and coming on to her. Front room friendliness and getting her off script are much better than letting her sell you dances.

SJG

I get this sometimes too and agree that it is most likely inexperience, tho I'm sure some of them are hoping that you will do the asking - those are usually the ones who can't deal with rejection. And there is probably a small percentage that decide after talking to the PL that she doesn't want to dance for them for whatever reason.

Bitches be crazy.

Maybe she's taking a break pretending to be asking for dances but didn't really want to.

I once asked a dancer (that I knew really well) why she rarely asked anyone for dances when every other one did. She told me that if she asked for a dance only about 10% of the patrons took her up on it, and usually tipped minimally. If she waited for customers to ask her, about double that she initially talked (both from their desire and from other dancers they saw becoming unavailable) to asked her for a dance and their tip were usually much much better. If she waited she usually made at least double if not much more for the evening.

Thank you all for the comments. If they don't ask I will just wait for the next girl. There are always plenty of girls to go around!

I think some experienced strippers get a bad vibe, assume that you aren't into them, and move on to avoid what they suspect will be the inevitable rejection if they ask. Some other experienced strippers sense that you aren't ready for dances so they're laying the groundwork for coming by to ask you later. Either that or maybe you forgot to put on deodorant.

It takes a while for a girl to learn to be aggressive.

SJG