When you set up OTC with a dancer, any preferred way you go about it: in-person, by phone or by text? I've had my hits and misses with each method. I much prefer to do it in-person for a more personal touch but most of the time, circumstances (dancers not being at the club regularly, etc.) don't allow it. Any way or method that is preferred or recommended would be helpful.
Text. Less chance of misunderstanding. Less chance of , did he say 6 PM or 8 PM.? Am I meeting K or J?
She'll still flake on you but for different reasons.
Once I have a repertoire with a dancer I text, easier and more descrete for everyone. Of course, face to face the first time is best, at least to get a phone number.
I agree with JS. In person or text. Its just the why people communicate these days. nobody talks on the phone much. The only issue with texting OTC convo would be if your texting her dead beat BF instead of her.
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Seriously, whichever way works best for the one you're dealing with. Some girls do better one way, others another.
She'll still flake on you but for different reasons.