Seawa's account was fun to read, and made me reflect on my own encounters.
I've learned before setting anything up OTC to set the expectations early on. If they consistently miss the expectations after agreeing ahead of time, there's no drama because I remind them what time we agreed upon and services to be rendered. I can calmly skip out on our arrangement by making it clear to the sex worker that the reason I have the funds to pay her is because of my time management skills. Blaj blah blah, we all have our own system, right?
I've enjoyed seawa's 5 articles, including this one and the one before (both on OTC). It prompted me to reflect as well. I also like the article on cheating and the community TUSCL responses.
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I've learned before setting anything up OTC to set the expectations early on. If they consistently miss the expectations after agreeing ahead of time, there's no drama because I remind them what time we agreed upon and services to be rendered. I can calmly skip out on our arrangement by making it clear to the sex worker that the reason I have the funds to pay her is because of my time management skills. Blaj blah blah, we all have our own system, right?
by seawa on October 1, 2015
"That Moment In time"
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