I date a dancer, rub girl. We are honest, in love, and dont cheat. When she goes to work, is it work or does she get turned on by the anonymous guys she coukd easily have without me knowing? Does she get wet? She says its work. But im guessing she gets turned on. It bothers me. Thoughts??? Be honest.
Dating a dancer does she get wet and turned on doing CR rooms and LDs? Truth
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last commentAssuming you are real and not juice (a pretty unlikely assumption, but let's roll with it): I personally could not handle being in love with a dancer or bodyrub girl. I could -- and have -- casually dated or FWBed them, but that's it. If you're thinking the way you are, you cannot handle it either -- doesn't even matter what the answers to your questions are. Get out now before the coming freight train of drama and heartbreak and betrayal hits you.
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If you really "are honest, in love, and dont cheat" ask her.
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It's probably easier to assume she's getting wet, blowing guys and more and then be pleasently surprised if she actually isn't.
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Many on the board would be happy to find out for you. tell us when, where and her stage name. Someone was going to suggest it. I wanted to be first.
The issue isn't if she gets turned on. If she gets turned on, doesn't anything with the customer and comes home to you , why would you care? If she isn't turned on but blows any guy with the price of a private dance, you would care.
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Wet? Yes
Turned on? Maybe
Is she gonna leave you for me? No fucking way. I may finger her pussy and get her wet but I'm old, fat, and bald. Don't worry about it.
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"We are honest". If that is true, why are you on here asking if she is honest? Do they get wet? Hell yes. Some of them do. I've had them, without asking, just slide my cock into them bare back. I had a favorite once tell me that she couldn't have sex before coming to work. That if she did, she just couldn't get in the mood to do her job.
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They all get extremely excited.
How do I know? That's what they tell me.
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I couldn't handle dating a stripper. Here's how my Friday afternoon went down in a club that's not particularly known for extras:
It's not that I'm such a stud -- I, too, am old, fat, and bald[ing]. It's just what some (not all!) strippers do to make a living, and then they go home and fuck their boyfriends' brains out. Like I said, I couldn't deal with having a stripper girlfriend, but for most of these girls it's just a job.
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Doesn't matter if she gets turned on, only if she acts on it. As a dude, you probably get turned on walking through the grocery store. If your woman is even mildly hot, she can get it anytime she wants by walking into TGI Fridays she doesn't have to work at a strip club to get it. Some get turned on, some get turned off. Only question is if she stays faithful.
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Do you get hard when you get a lap dance? Yes....she gets wet. Some more than others.
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If she doesn't get wet, she'll get sore after time. Lubrication is the reason wetness happens (not that penetration is taking place but a full friction dance is, face it, foreplay). Its how the female body is built and you gotta respect that- If you can't handle the fact that if she's doing dancing she's doing sex work, you should move on for your own sanity.
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Chill it's just work most likely. My guy and I when we started going out I was still dancing. I never got turned on doing dances for guys it was always just work nothing more
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^^^^^^ That's why I say that letting girls sell you dances if for chumps.
Front room friendliness, see if she will open up to you and get real. If not, no big deal. That's her business.
But don't go into booths or back rooms until you have one who is completely real with you.
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Assume she does get turned on, assume she will fuck for money. Be thankful for the time and relationship you have with her. Be thankful you have a girl that will come home every night/morning to you, and you know she will be there day after day, for free with you. Jealousy and monogamy have no place in a SC. You have to separate orgasm sex (work) and relationship sex (you) in your head to understand a stripper. Whats the difference between you watching porn and you fucking your GF? Thats the same difference between her work and fucking you.
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