Dating a dancer does she get wet and turned on doing CR rooms and LDs? Truth

14 comments

• Subraman

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  8 years ago

  Assuming you are real and not juice (a pretty unlikely assumption, but let's roll with it): I personally could not handle being in love with a dancer or bodyrub girl. I could -- and have -- casually dated or FWBed them, but that's it. If you're thinking the way you are, you cannot handle it either -- doesn't even matter what the answers to your questions are. Get out now before the coming freight train of drama and heartbreak and betrayal hits you.
• whodey

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  8 years ago

  If you really "are honest, in love, and dont cheat" ask her.
• grand1511

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  8 years ago

  It's probably easier to assume she's getting wet, blowing guys and more and then be pleasently surprised if she actually isn't.
• K

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  8 years ago

  Many on the board would be happy to find out for you. tell us when, where and her stage name. Someone was going to suggest it. I wanted to be first.
  The issue isn't if she gets turned on. If she gets turned on, doesn't anything with the customer and comes home to you , why would you care? If she isn't turned on but blows any guy with the price of a private dance, you would care.
• motorhead

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  8 years ago

  
  Wet? Yes
  Turned on? Maybe
  
  Is she gonna leave you for me? No fucking way. I may finger her pussy and get her wet but I'm old, fat, and bald. Don't worry about it.
• shadowcat

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  8 years ago

  "We are honest". If that is true, why are you on here asking if she is honest? Do they get wet? Hell yes. Some of them do. I've had them, without asking, just slide my cock into them bare back. I had a favorite once tell me that she couldn't have sex before coming to work. That if she did, she just couldn't get in the mood to do her job.
• flagooner

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  8 years ago

  
  They all get extremely excited.
  
  How do I know? That's what they tell me.
• MrDeuce

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  8 years ago

  I couldn't handle dating a stripper. Here's how my Friday afternoon went down in a club that's not particularly known for extras:
  * early p.m.: 30-min. VIP room with my club favorite -- simultaneous DATY and BBBJ. *Everyone* was happy!
  * mid p.m.: lappers with two girls who have had my dick in their mouth. Hands in my pants from both.
  * late p.m.: another 30-min. VIP with my favorite -- pretty much a repetition of VIP #1. Two happy campers again!
  
  It's not that I'm such a stud -- I, too, am old, fat, and bald[ing]. It's just what *some* (not all!) strippers do to make a living, and then they go home and fuck their boyfriends' brains out. Like I said, I couldn't deal with having a stripper girlfriend, but for most of these girls it's just a job.
• Meursault

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  8 years ago

  Doesn't matter if she gets turned on, only if she acts on it. As a dude, you probably get turned on walking through the grocery store. If your woman is even mildly hot, she can get it anytime she wants by walking into TGI Fridays she doesn't have to work at a strip club to get it. Some get turned on, some get turned off. Only question is if she stays faithful.
• rockstar666

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  8 years ago

  Do you get hard when you get a lap dance? Yes....she gets wet. Some more than others.
• Hugh_G_Rection

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  8 years ago

  If she doesn't get wet, she'll get sore after time. Lubrication is the reason wetness happens (not that penetration is taking place but a full friction dance is, face it, foreplay). Its how the female body is built and you gotta respect that- If you can't handle the fact that if she's doing dancing she's doing sex work, you should move on for your own sanity.
• Phoenix133

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  8 years ago

  Chill it's just work most likely. My guy and I when we started going out I was still dancing. I never got turned on doing dances for guys it was always just work nothing more
• san_jose_guy

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  8 years ago

  ^^^^^^ That's why I say that letting girls sell you dances if for chumps.
  
  Front room friendliness, see if she will open up to you and get real. If not, no big deal. That's her business.
  
  But don't go into booths or back rooms until you have one who is completely real with you.
  
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• s88

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  8 years ago

  Assume she does get turned on, assume she will fuck for money. Be thankful for the time and relationship you have with her. Be thankful you have a girl that will come home every night/morning to you, and you know she will be there day after day, for free with you. Jealousy and monogamy have no place in a SC. You have to separate orgasm sex (work) and relationship sex (you) in your head to understand a stripper. Whats the difference between you watching porn and you fucking your GF? Thats the same difference between her work and fucking you.