How to tell an ATF I'm taking a break from the hobby...
Tuesday, July 5, 2016 8:01 PM
Meursault's SC retirement topic came at a perfect time and got me thinking about my current quasi related predicament. I've always been come and go when it comes to this hobby, taking breaks of 6 months or even more whenever I get bored of it or felt I needed a break for one reason or another. I'm a married family man with a job that can get taxing and the same reasons why that draws me to clubs can also push me away from them sometimes.
Welp, I've hit one of those walls where I'm ready for a long break from SCs, thinking possibly the rest of the year. No problems right? Well, for the first time since I've been in this hobby, I have an ATF. We've hit it off great since the first visit, we text each other every week, she's GFE and does everything I want, and I make sure she's well reimbursed. The few thousand I've spent on her since earlier this year may pale in comparison to what others on here spend on a girl (like Larry and his rainin'), nor is it hitting my bankroll too hard, but it's much much more than I've ever done with anyone before. That time and money investment I've made in her has somehow convinced me that I may owe this girl more than just telling her I'm gonna step back for a bit. She's done nothing to make me want to go on a hiatus, in fact, she's done everything right, but her alone is not enough to change my mind at this point.
My first thought is she's a stripper, she'll be bitter for about 30 seconds about missing out on my consistent money and then'll forget I ever existed, so who cares. But what if instead she becomes clingy about it or gets pissed off? When I return to clubs, will I ever be able to get her back or go to her club at all without her starting shit?
I know this is getting extremely PL of me, but I've never had to deal with this before and don't know what to expect or say. Has anyone gone through anything similar or have any advice for me?
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