I'm going to quit watching porn or relegate it to once a week or something.
The other day I went to fuck a solid 7, and I just couldn't get into it. I kept waiting for her to do something nasty to get me riled up. Then she tells me she only slept with 10 guys in her life time, this woman is at least 32. I was thinking "seriously? "
I left told her she was too much of a good girl for me. Well I told her she didn't want to mess with a guy like me (I always take responsibility)
Not too long ago I would have been straight at attention just seeing her naked and now if these girls ain't straight nasty sluts it like never mind.
So I am going on a porn diet just to see if normal girls can turn me on again.
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last commentWhat you say has merit. I lay off the porn for a couple of days prior planned sex with a real person.
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It's a good strategy
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For some reason, I'm the opposite. I've tried the abstaining from porn days before a planned SC trip, but I've found I get into it even more and perform even better if I don't change up my routine.
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My record is two months, which I did a few years ago. I have since frequently abstained for weeks at a time, sometimes a whole month. It used to be a habitual thing for me, almost like clockwork every few days get online and browse until I find something I like and then rub one out. But since practicing, I have found my porn consumption has gone down considerably the last few years. Now a week without porn is quite normal.
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My record is 23 years....i'm 25. I just quit recently.
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I imagine more interesting porn in my sleep and the girls are interactive. They seem so real that online porn often seems boring. I can't turn off the girls in my dreams. They suck first and talk later.
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Sorry - that would be setting myself up for failure. I'm able to go 48 hours without hardcore porn - but that's the longest I can go.
Good luck with your abstinence. I love filthy women too. The nastier - the better!
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Similar to what a21 posted; watching porn often gets me really worked up to hit a SC - problem for me is when I can't contain myself from slapping the monkey and thus waste my ammunition b/f I get a chance to hit the SC.
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This is a major issue with the younger generation and it's so bad that there are support groups out there for it.
Guys and get off easily by themselves while watching porn but cannot get it up or aroused when with a real woman because they've masturbsted so much.
I started seeing someone new (not a stripper) and we both commented how we watch porn and masturbate a lot and how it's affected our performance. This girl claims to masturbate usually once or twice a day, and I usually do around 6 times a week.
My best advice it to lay off it and masturbating a few days before you have a planned encounter. Do wait a week or weeks (that can give you the same result of doing it everyday). Eventually you will find your sweet spot, whether it be a day, two days or four days, you'll figure it out on your own. For me, it's two days of abstinence to make a sex session really enjoyable even if the girl doesn't get me all horny the moment I see her naked.
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I think like junk food, everyone need to figure out how to self regulate themselves.
This may be a stripper thing more than a pornew thing. Or maybe she was just boring.
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I can remember some time ago (10 years ago ???) when a guy on the radio mentioned a porn app for a phone had come out and he laughed that NOBODY would watch porn on a tiny screen. Lol. For several years that's the ONLY place I've watched porn
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john smith69 is currently doing the abstain from porn challenge as well
GACA....only 10 guys at 32 years old? personally, i don't think 10 is a low amount for someone her age. women are more about relationships and less into sleeping around compared to guys, IMO
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I've been there. A five week porn abstention helped reprogram / re-calibrate my mind. All things in moderation.
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I agree abstinence helps to make one more able to have sex with real women.
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"All things in moderation".
^this. Especially for stuff like porn, chacken fangers, four loko, rimjobs, and tranny handjobs.
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Re: Tranny HJs.
I'm not sure there is a moderate limit to those unless it's 0. That may be a question for Danny Bonaduce though. I think he helped invent the market for those.
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As GoV mentioned, I've been mostly off porn now for something like 8-10 weeks. I didn't cut it out completely but I cut at least 90-95% of my porn viewing. Now it's very rare and brief that I look at porn.
Overall this has been a positive change. Sex in the real world has gotten better. Like the OP said, I had gotten to the point where a naked woman hardly got me excited anymore. I required an extraordinary slut doing all sorts of nasty shit to even get me interested.
I'm not sure how long Ill keep this up but probably for a while. And if/when I do return to porn on a more regular basis, I will definitely make less use of it going forward than I used to.
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As the saying goes - "abstinence makes the pipi grow harder"
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