A new era...
ATACdawg
Unfortunately, the bastard is rehired😪
This morning, my wife officially retired. This will change a lot of things, not to mention my clubbing habit which is liable to take a big hit since my wife won't be flying all over the country.
Biggest of all will be that we will be together a LOT more than we have been in all 35 years of our marriage.
Will we survive it? Any odds being offered by my TUSCL friends? ;-)
Biggest of all will be that we will be together a LOT more than we have been in all 35 years of our marriage.
Will we survive it? Any odds being offered by my TUSCL friends? ;-)
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BUT - all of us like banging strippers but banging your wife is usually a lot cheaper.
I'm sure you two will find some new things to do.
Are you retired too?
Send her again - tell her Kenya needs her more than you do - that you are willing to sacrifice for the good of the Kenyan people
:)
You never know, ATACdawg.....
Maybe she's just a couple drinks away from "Retired Church Professionals Gone Wild"?
BTW, rh, how about those Penguins!!!!!!
We've been married 46 years today. The wife never worked other than to do the most important work a woman can do, be a mother!
Recent issues have had the same effect on us as your wife retiring has on you. Together basically 24x7. And yes, it can take a toll. One plus for you, it isn't a health issue. Best of luck to you!
This is a great opportunity to kindle a new romance with her, but that will not happen if you two are tripping over each other all day long. While you help her get busy, you can create in her mind that you, also, need to have various outside interests. One of those interests should be SCs (or a hobby or sport that covers the same times, if you haven't disclosed to her your interest in hot naked strippers)
Good luck, good hunting.
Congratulations though. I like to see people live to and earn retirement. Best of luck to both of you.
(or long-distance bike-riding)
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=4…
SJG
But look at my thread. Do you think long term strict monogamy usually requires both:
1. religious support
2. accepting desexualization
?
SJG
SJG, we have that, and have for the last 30 years. Even though my wife desire has been wiped out by menopause, sex really wasn't, and isn't now, the most important aspect of our relationship.
And that is how I stay monogamous.
SJG, we have that, and have for the last 30 years. Even though my wife desire has been wiped out by menopause, sex really wasn't, and isn't now, the most important aspect of our relationship.
And that is how I stay monogamous.
My hypothesis is that most guys aren't going to live strict monogamy unless they have both of the two:
1. Religious support for strict monogamy.
2. Are willing to accept a large degree of desexualization.
Now of course, some guys end relationships. Some guys end marriages. This, serial monogamy, is not cheating. It is out in the open. But it is still not monogamy.
So do you agree that most guys who live strict monogamy would not do it without conservative religious affiliation supporting them?
Do you agree that to live strict monogamy one is required to accept a large degree of desexualization, loss of the intensity and thrill, and all the other parts of sex which make porno movies great, loss of the transcended spirituality which the pagan temples of the ancient world offered, loss of the further sexual development which a guy often misses out on when he gets married, loss of the tantric intensity which makes sex into a religious experience?
SJG
Stokely Carmichael At UC Berkeley - Black Power
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFFWTsUq…
https://www.amazon.com/Why-Men-Hate-Goin…
They must be living in places without Viet Coffee.
Maybe some of our church going folks would be able to answer this?
https://www.flickr.com/photos/25953606@N…
SJG
Killing Me Softley
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4USer34…