For me, I pretty much have to have full two way contact in order to fully enjoy a lap dance, I can't see getting more than one dance if my hands didn't get to roam unless the dancer was insanely hot. But even then id probably get bored and frustrated after a couple songs. I haven't gotten a lap dance that didn't include full two way since I started going back to strip clubs a couple years ago so this hasn't been a problem. Probably about half the dancers have also let me suck their tits.
I haven't encountered the following scenario yet and I can't imagine any stripper doing this but it's a good hypothetical question. If you had to choose between being able to squeeze a dancers tits but not being allowed to suck and/or bury your face in them or being able to suck on them but not allowed to touch them in any other way which would you choose?
As much as I love sucking on nipples I think I'd have to go with the squeezing but no sucking. Something about being able to squeeze a dancers tits (real or fake) pretty much as hard as I want is a huge turn on. Being able to squeeze them also makes it easier for me to LDK.
Years ago a dancer once told me not to use strip clubs for sexual gratification because that is perverted. What I take that to mean is that it is not ordinary sex, not even real sex. No such thing as too much good sex, but what you are describing is not that.
So what are the good ways to use strip clubs:
1. Because you want to imbibe the ambiance, the dolled up hotties in high heels, intending to please, and then go find outside women to re-create that.
2. Because you want some sort of outside experiences with the dances.
Either way you won't need to go very often to get these, as you will be seeing girls outside.
I usually have no interest in sucking anything on a stripper and grabbing her tits isnt my m.o. either.(in more into hips and ass). If I suck her tits can I grab her hypothetical ass still?
I went to my first strip club in 1991 shortly after turning 21 - it was an upscale club w/ supa-hot hos but one could not touch - I was in awe on my first visit and went back the week after but after 2 visits and no touching I was over the novelty - sorta like going to a restaurant where they serve you a delicious looking plate of food but they don't allow you to eat it; only look at it and imagining you can eat it - hell no.
"... If you had to choose between being able to squeeze a dancers tits but not being allowed to suck and/or bury your face in them or being able to suck on them but not allowed to touch them in any other way which would you choose ..."
This is an excellent example why TUSCL is so much more superior to StripperWeb - I've never encountered such deeply thought provoking questions over on SW :)
IMO a woman's body seems to have been designed for touching - IMO men instinctively love to touch women and women instinctively loved to be touched - thus I'll choose touching over sucking in the hypothetical.
As much as I enjoy sucking on some titties. I really like caressing and massaging and worshipping a woman's breasts. If she is an A cup, which I don't get dances with very often, I would want to suck on those nipples.
Like Papi_Chulo my early SC experiences were in no-touch clubs and I found it completely frustrating to "look but not touch" - what the hell was the point. Then a year ago my wife and I were in Vegas and went to SR on a whim and the first dancer that sat in her lap said "go ahead and feel them" and from then on I've been feeling up strippers every chance I get - sucking is just an added bonus. I will say, it is a big disappointment when what looks like a great set ends up feeling like a botched job with a lot of scar tissue and hard implants.
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last commentSo what are the good ways to use strip clubs:
1. Because you want to imbibe the ambiance, the dolled up hotties in high heels, intending to please, and then go find outside women to re-create that.
2. Because you want some sort of outside experiences with the dances.
Either way you won't need to go very often to get these, as you will be seeing girls outside.
SJG
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Rech would definitely take taste.
But I'm still going to want to get the girl outside, or if not, then substitute and outside girl.
SJG
Guess that means my answer is squeeze.
This is an excellent example why TUSCL is so much more superior to StripperWeb - I've never encountered such deeply thought provoking questions over on SW :)
IMO a woman's body seems to have been designed for touching - IMO men instinctively love to touch women and women instinctively loved to be touched - thus I'll choose touching over sucking in the hypothetical.
SJG