DS Sex Story Part 1: John Finds a New Orifice

I knew the weed would push you over the line.

I take it she's not an anal virgin

JamesSD, from what John has said in the past the only anal virgin in their relationship was him.

From the start we had an understanding. No anal. Recently we discussed it when I noticed she was anal receptive. A guy I know about fucked her in the ass, and she liked it. She said I could do it if I wanted to just ask. There was no pressure from her to do it. Just an offer of her body for my pleasure.

You guys don't know what happened. Don't assume. With a DS you just let the sex flow freely and accept the multiorgasmic path that the little head chooses.

Your so damn funny John and entertaining too. Hope to run into you someday for comparing notes and laughs. Maybe at the Follies of the Southwest? Keep it up my friend.

-->" I never imagined that a woman could get so turned on by playing with her asshole, but my sweet little sexual freak is teaching me something new, again. "

This is definitely a high five moment! :)

I also can't resist the temptation to point out my theory about strip club forumites vs forumites everywhere else in the sex industry -- that is, strip club forumites tend to be incredibly, almost-militantly mainstream vanilla and sexually unadventurous (or rather, perhaps "adventurous" within the confines of oral sex, playing with titties, and vaginal sex only); that's something that's been true of every strip club forum I've participated in over the years. The notion that women like rosebud massages, or digital penetration, isn't something that would serve as a revelation anywhere but a strip club forum. Everywhere else but a strip club forum, just standard repertoire, not even hitting the kink meter! Funny thing is, strippers seem to say there's all kinds of guys asking for crazy sexual things in the clubs, so I'm guessing the militantly-vanilla thing is a quality of strip club forumites rather than SC customers in general.

Still, welcome to the club! If this isn't a one-time thing inspired only by the DS, you'll find rosebud play is loved by a majority of women, even up to digital penetration. It's not until you get to full-blown anal sex where you find fewer women enthusiastic.

Thanks Corvus. I'll post the next time I visit Follies of the Southwest.

@Subraman: "that is, strip club forumites tend to be incredibly, almost-militantly mainstream vanilla and sexually unadventurous"

You know, I never noticed that before, but it's an interesting hypothesis. You can't call it a theory yet: you haven't provided any repeatable experiment evidence yet. :)

But seriously, thinking about it, you might have something. There are a few posters here who do stuff outside the "mainstream" set of activities, but you mostly hear about just intercourse, oral and occasionally anal.

gmd: well, for me it's a theory, I've seen it repeated obviously and graphically since I started participating in the very first SC group, even before the WWW -- alt.sex.strip-clubs -- and in the 7+ SC groups since then. Alas, I can't document it, all those groups are gone, but in my head, it's a theory, and a well-tested one at that :)

To put into perspective -- and I think tuscl is very representative of strip club forums in general -- aside from vanilla activities discussed, the group stamps out activities that go too far off the path; we'll take vanilla sprinkled with cinnamon, but not cookie dough chocolate chip. Here, rosebud counts as an eye-opening adventure with a sexual freak (NOT picking on JOhn, I love his stories and enthusiasm, his stuff is just a good representative), anal sex is downright controversial. Hell, sometime back a guy came on talking about a sexual activity that I would NEVER do with a stripper, but I enjoyed it because it was a guy who was enthusiastic about a sexual activity, and it was talk about strip club sex back when the forum was mostly trolls and "Fuck that faggot Rickyboy". Even then, this group far prefers trolls to any sexual activity that is not vanilla, and actively drove him off the group (and JS was part of the hostile crowd, BTW).

In a forum on any other area of the sex industry, just about anything is acceptable, with just a few exceptions. Try it, go on a TER discussion forum and ask about: greek, foot fetish, female-on-male rosebud massage, anilingus, light bondage, CBT, frottage, prostate massage, strap-on, and on and on and on .... there, you will get guys telling you how to find what you want, and maybe one or two errant douches telling you you're a weirdo. Then try it here or ANY other strip club forum, and you'll be driven off the group.

The interesting thing, again, is that strippers make it sound like they get these kinds of requests pretty often. Which is why I claim it's strictly a property of the kinds of guys who participate in strip club forums, not generally representative of strip club customers. In strip club forums, you are free to talk about vaginal sex, oral sex either direction, and various things you can do with titties, and anything else is entering the "here be dragons" part of the map. Anyway, I don't know why strip club forums tend to draw super vanilla posters, to the point those posters are more tolerant of trolls than of non-vanilla sexual activities, but there it is.

To Subra- At the risk of getting slammed I would say that this forum is more the type of people that enjoy hanging out in the atmosphere that most strip clubs promote that is to say most of the posters here are intelligent, mainly reasonably successful folks, that like to have a bit of fun maybe goof off a bit, but I doubt that many of our posters are really into freaky sexual activities, as those types tend to be loners and most of the guys and gals are more sociable. Not going for deep psychological analysis these folks are generally more into a party type group, that likes to live it up and have the means to do so. Additionally most are tolerant of others, unless it takes them past their comfort zone, then they decide to push back, as they didn't sign up to be provoked, and have some strongly defined standards (opinions) that keep them out of trouble.

25-->"but I doubt that many of our posters are really into freaky sexual activities, as those types tend to be loners and most of the guys and gals are more sociable."

Ironically, based on what I read here, I may be one of the guys here with the freakiest sexual appetites, and based on the "do you like to SC with others" thread, I am also by far the most sociable, choosing to SC with as large a group as possible as often as I can!

I'll also point out again that based on what strippers say, lots of strip club customers love freaky activities; it's just on the forums where customers don't. Strip clubs customers are as adventurous sexually as anyone; it's strip club forum members who are not.

-->" Additionally most are tolerant of others, unless it takes them past their comfort zone, then they decide to push back, as they didn't sign up to be provoked, "

To the contrary, the group is incredibly intolerant of anything that's more than a stone's throw from the most mainstream of mainstream activities, and the fact that any other activity is interpreted as "provocation" rather than just an interesting read about what other people like, or even to just ignore, really puts the exclamation point at the end of that sentence.

BTW, I'm coming across as complaining, but I'm not. I understand the tuscl group "ethics" and am bought into the social contract here. But I have thought for years the relatively conservative sexual appetites of SC forum participants is interesting, especially in how universal it is, even though it's not representative of SC customers in general

Subra I don't know that I agree with you on this one I feel it is one thing to be tolerant of others tastes, politics etc. but some times it feels like those folks with other tastes try to proselytize and there is where it starts to become a pushback issue, in other words I don't really care what two consenting adults do in the privacy of their world as long as I don't feel obligated to partake just because you enjoy it same goes for politics, religion and any other topic if it works for you and you feel like talking about it I do not have to participate and as long as I am not attacked or feel like I am I wont bother anybody else. But that's just my penny's worth.

One other quick thought while I am on the subject, this is an open unmoderated forum and I really like it that way but if the subjects were not to my interest I wouldn't participate the way that I do.

"but I doubt that many of our posters are really into freaky sexual activities, as those types tend to be loners and most of the guys and gals are more sociable."

You guys do know that SJG posts here all the time... Right?

lol. ;)

To war there exceptions to every rule and SJG strikes me as a classic loner ;-)

All good! We can't agree on everything...

-->"Subra I don't know that I agree with you on this one I feel it is one thing to be tolerant of others tastes, politics etc. but some times it feels like those folks with other tastes try to proselytize and there is where it starts to become a pushback issue, "

But, that's not the case the overwhelming amount of time. In the case I described above, the guy was notproselytizing, he was just describing an off-the-beaten-path sexual act he liked to do with strippers, in strip clubs, and just wanted to share and swap stories, not proselytize and get everyone else doing it. On a forum for any other area of the sex industry, he would have gotten replies from other interested parties and ignored by the rest. But, I think you are more representative of this group than I am -- it didn't matter whether he was proselytizing or not, it didn't matter if he was on topic or not; strip club groups prefer that non-mainstream acts not be discussed at all, and would prefer a forum full of trolls to discussion of those acts. I prefer talk about sex with strippers in or out of strip clubs, over troll posts, even if it's sexual acts I'd never do myself. I'm def in the minority :)

Subra I don't believe that I participated in that thread I try not to be disresptful, usually I prefer to not comment on things that don't interest me occasionally I find something funny and I might point out that but I doubt that I ever commented on any ones sexuality. Btw I don't put any body on ignore I just don't respond to everything I read.

@Subraman: Can you point me to that thread? I don't recall that one?