I've been going to strip clubs for years and pretty much taken some of the more freaky girls up on whatever they offer me. However, it would be nice to get together with a girl in a more private environment. I've had a few girls over the years offer me OTC at their place, but have never taken them up on it. Likewise, according to reviews from a few sites I trust, there are a few local AMPs in my area that seem to pretty consistently provide what I might be looking for.
I'm not sure what my problem is on pulling the trigger. I'm one of of those guys that always likes to scout out the club when I walk in the door--sit at the bar and look over the entire scene before I put together my plan of attack. I can't seem to get comfortable with an OTC situation where I'm not completely in control of everything. Has anyone else had problems overcoming this "final barrier"? What did you do? Seems the best way to take the plunge is to simply tell yourself, "Well, you only live once."
Thanks.
Honestly, my off-the-cuff explanation -- which you can take as a serious clinical diagnosis, since it's been well documented here that I got a C- in Psychology 101 freshman year in college -- is that you're plain and simply scared and/or anxious, and using a "I have to be in control" explanation to keep from admitting it. You're walking down to the dark end of the street and it's scary, we've all been there.
I think with that admission to yourself, it's just a matter of deciding you won't let it control you, and go "take the plunge". You can tell yourself anything you want to keep your anxiety down, right down to "if I feel like bailing at any time, I'll just give her her $ and bail; if I get a bad feeling, I'll stay where there's people and get out", etc. You can bail any time. You can sit on the bed and just talk to her. whatever.
Or, maybe it's not for you, and you should listen to your gut... More strippers for me, man! :)