Why I respect prostitution
former_stripper
1. They get paid for something too many do for a benefit anyway. I know women who will sleep with guys who buy them dinner, at least the hooker is honest.
2. Both people get what they want, him a woman for sex, her money. No pretending he's interested.
3. No pretending to care. He doesn't have to say "I'll call you". He doesn't have to wine and dine
4. Men get the woman they want. If they want sex for free they often go to a bar and hope she wants it. He might be desperate and take an ugly skank home. With prostitution he chooses the type, maybe even the specific one.
The above applies to women seeking other women or gigolos.
2. Both people get what they want, him a woman for sex, her money. No pretending he's interested.
3. No pretending to care. He doesn't have to say "I'll call you". He doesn't have to wine and dine
4. Men get the woman they want. If they want sex for free they often go to a bar and hope she wants it. He might be desperate and take an ugly skank home. With prostitution he chooses the type, maybe even the specific one.
The above applies to women seeking other women or gigolos.
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FWIW, I agree. I have had my healthy share of provider sessions, and they were all very good. We each got exactly what we wanted and expected. I had only interned to do it once, to say that I did it and to remove it from my bucket list of things that i wanted to try at least once. But I enjoyed it enough to continue dabbling in it every once in a while.
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So most of the time women will either want to be married, or supported in some other way. Prostitution is it.
I don't look at it as paying for sex. I look at it as paying for the girl to be available and dolled up and waiting for me. If she wasn't getting paid, she would have to be employed in some other way. Worst of all would be to lose her to FIRE ( Finance, Insurance, Real Estate ). So I'd rather pay her to be waiting in high heels and makeup, instead of having her lost to something completely parasitical like FIRE, where she would be getting mind fucked every hour of every day.
Also, being able to be intimate with strangers is a special gift, a calling some people have. So I see prostitution as a continuation of the religious prostitution of the ancient world.
It counter acts the neuroticism prevalent in our culture. Anyone who has ever tried to have a relationship with a girl from a well off white family knows what neuroticism is.
SJG
You've said many stupid things on this board, but this one is one of your most idiotic.
I did not take the time needed to fully explain my observation. I do not hold it against women that they do not prepare to support themselves via conventional employment. I don't hold me to this standard either.
No, I am not a conservative and I am certainly not a libertarian either. Rather, I think both women and men are getting screwed over. Both have lost so very much.
So I see it as quite reasonable that women would be happy accept prostitution money when it is being offered to them. They are just giving guys what they want anyway. Guys offer them money. So the girls are not wrong for accepting. They are just trying to get by in this world.
Also, things have changed so probably they will not have the chance to be married, not to someone who could support them. So building up a nest egg while they are young, is quite reasonable.
I never look at prostitution money as paying them to do anything they would not otherwise be perfectly happy to do anyway. It is just a show of respect for their needs and concerns.
SJG
Maybe Lopaw can talk about her experiences with this from a female customer. Does it change the dynamic if the customer is female? After all, traditionally women were supported by men, not women even if they were gay (and many married women years ago were gay, one of my neighbors from childhood left her husband for a woman).
SJG
My experiences with prostitutes has so far been very interesting. Every provider that I have met up with has been very professional about her job but I sense that i get to see a side of them that most men do not (same with strippers). They exude a sense of empowerment, but also realize that they are fulfilling a need for many lonely and disenfranchised people so they are great listeners and the more observant ones can really key in a clients needs and concerns. None of them has had any problem taking my money, though since I am female and come highly reviewed I have never had a provider ever touch the envelope that her payment is in during any of our sessions to check on it or count it. I have been told by both strippers & escorts that having a female customer that knows the game and is a good customer is a wonderful change of pace from the usual clientele.
I gotta write a book someday :)