Strippers After a Civiie Date?

Sep 19, 2015, 12:25 AM

Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.

So I had a date with a Civiie . Why u decided to out myself through that torture is because I'm always looking to set myself up for some discounted intimacy. Ya it was everything I remembered, boring as fuck conversation from a person who clearly hopes you like them more than they like you.

I left the date early, wanted to hit the club, I have all the instant intimacy and associated and tits I need. Feel like something is just a but perverted about leaving a chick to hit the club Civiie, She was a solid 7 But she can't compete with the oozing of sexuality of my CF. The way she knows just how to take me on an emotional ride. Civiie wants to fuck. I'm gonna play hard to get, but actually not he playing because, well now that I have a release, I am hard to get.

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GACA10 years ago

Drunk post wI'll clean it up later. But God I love strippers

Supremeruler10 years ago

^looks like it.

sclvr500510 years ago

You turned down civvie sex to instead go pay for it? Wtf???

georgmicrodong10 years ago

@sclvr5005, In the long run, paying for sex with a sex worker is less expensive than the "free" sex one gets from civvies.

Subraman10 years ago

I often do the same thing, at least for 1st & 2nd dates when it's clear the date won't be leading to sex. I won't end the date early with a civilian I like, but once the date ends, if the date happened in the city (which means I drove an hour already just to get there) and it's still early enough to hit the strip club, I'll hit it. But that's "date ended organically, hit SC because there's still time". That said, GACA, I think it's unhealthy to leave a civi you'd otherwise be into, to go SCing instead, the SC can definitely fuck with your head when it comes to civilian dating if you're not careful

Supremeruler10 years ago

Gmd, it can be lot quicker too. Civi girls are major sluts nowadays but some still want to do the "get to know you" phase.

JamesSD10 years ago

GACA, it sounds like you're not in a place right now where the hassle of a civvy is worth the "free" sex.

There can be an ego boost when a woman really wants to fuck you. In my dabbling with p4p I've had a hard time getting past the idea that the girl is only doing it for the money. Sometimes it doesn't matter, sometimes she's a good actress and sometimes there actually is enough of a legitimate connection that there's some chemistry beyond the p4p, even if she wouldn't actually be doing it without the pay part.

Relationships take time, effort and work, and for guys in their 20s and 30s who aren't looking to settle down and start a family, there's not too many incentives to be in a relationship.

I still think you need to find yourself a civvy fuckbuddy/FWB. Someone you can booty call and slam for free, but who knows what's up. Sadly I also realize how hard those things are to sustain. Someone always either wants a relationship or finds someone else to be in a relationship with.

The "right" girl will make you want to stay in bed with her and not go hunting strippers. But you gotta have some patience finding the good ones.