Up until this past summer, I very rarely did OTC with strippers, even with a former ATF. I just prefer keeping our activities ITC in VIP or a dark corner of the club. Against my principles, I've been doing quite a few OTC sessions within the past couple of months just for curiosity and a change of pace. These are with dancers that I have known and gotten dances from for a while and in all cases they were the ones that initiated the offer. It's fun and all until the clinginess and SS begins. Plus it tends to be a bit more expensive taking the OTC route. Additionally, I noticed that once you've seen them OTC, they tend to get overly possessive with you inside the club, thus severely impacting the vibe.
Well, it was a fun experiment overall, but I think that I will continue to be an ITC type of person.
@Ranukam: I'm starting to see. One hit my phone up because she was $400 behind on rent and wanted me to wire her the money. I fell for that one before and I'll never do it again. Another one wanted me to plot revenge on her old pimp and have me become her new pimp.
I like ITC with the occasional OTC because there is just somethings I need some space and privacy to do. But I always get a bigger nut seeing what I can get away with doing ITC for the most part.
OTC def has it’s upsides but does not generally jive w/ my M.O.:
1) for the most part I’m a spur of the moment guy and don’t plan my SC visits; I like to go when in the mood – OTC needs to be planned ahead of time for the most part and less of a chance I’ll be able to meet the girl JIT (Just In Time) when I’m in the right mood – I get a lot of #s ITC from dancers wanting to meet up OTC and when I’m ITC and all hard-up I take their #s thinking I’ll follow thru – but by the next day when my horniness has subsided I don’t really wanna bother
2) I like variety and one of the reasons I like ITC – being w/ just one chick does not really do it for me (although I probably have not met the right chick/dancer that will make me wanna be w/ just her)
And yeah – I suffer from NGS (Nice Guy Syndrome) and thus rather not deal too closely/personally with dancers particularity OTC b/c I don’t wanna get entangled in their dramas – I’m a helper by nature and it’s not too hard for me to get entangled in other people’s issues and wanna help.
At first I was a OTC kind of guy but it was frustrating as hell because I would plan to meet with them (some of them as soon as they got off their shifts) but one or two things would go wrong and they wouldn't show up and follow through. I then switch to ITC because, well, the club is the one place you know they'll show up to. I prefer OTC but ITC was much more reliable. Now because of the PP situation, I guess I had to attempt OTC again but bitches are sill the same crazy I was dealing with when I was setting up OTC before.
Both. I prefer OTC, but I'll take ITC services in a private room situation. I won't do OTC with a girl who gives services ITC as I have no interest in being the last in a long line served in a night. So either I do ITC with a girl who offers it or OTC with a girl from a club where ITC services aren't offered.
I think what you mean is for extras, and for that, I prefer OTC... mostly because ITC extras feel rushed, and there's a lot less socializing in extras clubs, at least around here. I prefer lots of long no-extras tons-of-drinking ITC hanging out, punctuated by long OTC sex sessions
I prefer OTC for sex that way we aren't rushed or restricted by time and place. We normally go to dinner, a movie or shopping then back to my hotel for 2 or 3 hours of play time.
It would seem like once you know the girl enough, like one time getting into physical intimacy with her, then you should be able to exchange contact info with her. So from then on, some form of OTC or another. Cell phones have let women get looser with their #'s.
ITC is just for the first meeting, or if you just want to go on impulse, see, want, get immediately.
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These bitches are crazy man.
1) for the most part I’m a spur of the moment guy and don’t plan my SC visits; I like to go when in the mood – OTC needs to be planned ahead of time for the most part and less of a chance I’ll be able to meet the girl JIT (Just In Time) when I’m in the right mood – I get a lot of #s ITC from dancers wanting to meet up OTC and when I’m ITC and all hard-up I take their #s thinking I’ll follow thru – but by the next day when my horniness has subsided I don’t really wanna bother
2) I like variety and one of the reasons I like ITC – being w/ just one chick does not really do it for me (although I probably have not met the right chick/dancer that will make me wanna be w/ just her)
And yeah – I suffer from NGS (Nice Guy Syndrome) and thus rather not deal too closely/personally with dancers particularity OTC b/c I don’t wanna get entangled in their dramas – I’m a helper by nature and it’s not too hard for me to get entangled in other people’s issues and wanna help.
I prefer ITC with strippers, and escorts for OTC fun.
ITC is just for the first meeting, or if you just want to go on impulse, see, want, get immediately.
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