The difference between dancers and escorts
Tiredtraveler
Solo PL
Have ever perused the Back Page adds for escort services. Many of the best looking (best pictures anyway as I have no first hand experience with Back Page) girls in their 20's and 30's virtually all say they want middle age white guys. It may be for several reasons, they: more likely to have money, want a GFE which is less sex for more money, less likely to beat them up, and more likely to pop only once.
Young new strippers seem to like to hang around young losers that come to the club looking for a freeby or a girl to take home for the night. More experienced girls make a beeline for the better dressed old farts because they are more likely to have money in their pockets.
I have been club touring and have left clubs that have had many young pretty girls that are all hanging around a table full of 'boys' that barely have enough money between them to buy a couple of beers for themselves much less the dancers. But these girls would go on stage, dance, older guys would come tip them at the rail (not one of the boys would come tip), the girls would ignore the older guys and go sit back with the boys. I never saw on of them buy a drink, tip or get a private dance from any of the dancers.
Hence the phrase "young and dumb".
What is your experience.
Young new strippers seem to like to hang around young losers that come to the club looking for a freeby or a girl to take home for the night. More experienced girls make a beeline for the better dressed old farts because they are more likely to have money in their pockets.
I have been club touring and have left clubs that have had many young pretty girls that are all hanging around a table full of 'boys' that barely have enough money between them to buy a couple of beers for themselves much less the dancers. But these girls would go on stage, dance, older guys would come tip them at the rail (not one of the boys would come tip), the girls would ignore the older guys and go sit back with the boys. I never saw on of them buy a drink, tip or get a private dance from any of the dancers.
Hence the phrase "young and dumb".
What is your experience.
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Obviously, there's lots of exceptions. There are lots of strippers who favor older guys, just as many mid- and high-end escorts specify "older than 30" or even "older than 40" customers.
Of course, it's this very impulsiveness and lack of responsibility that leads to such amazing OTC stories with strippers. The equivalent of OTC with an escort or bodyrub girl is far more rare -- those girls are not going out drinking with you off the clock, they're not agreeing to have sex and then letting you do anal without upcharging you, they're not doing a whole bunch of things strippers do. You can separate the stripper behavior you like from the stripper behavior you don't like -- the girls who feature in many of our OTC stripper stories are impulsive and make poor choices, which is why we end up with those awesome stories, but that's also why they behave the way they do in the club, and why they're strippers and not escorts (even though many are hot enough to be upper-mid-range escorts) in the first place.
Sorry, meant you CAN'T separate the stripper behavior you like from the stripper behavior you don't like
Her ex-lover/dancer though...I was probably her OLDEST regular! LOL She was a hot dancer with lots of sexual skills and always was with the young guys, and as a result she never made that much money dancing. OTOH, she was available for OTC with absolutely anyone for a price, unlike my ATF.
Point being, different dancers have different motivations, so the ones who hang with the 20 something losers and ignoring the senior set might be making bank OTC.
I generally have very little problem getting the young uns to play with me. Flash some cash the next time you want to pry one away from her young friends. Not just a few dollar stage tip, but make clear to her that you've got hundreds to spend if she's good. I bet most will come play with you under those circumstances.
TiredTraveler and Subraman, I think both of you guys have really bad attitudes, and so I do hope that strip club dancers stay away from you.
My own experience is that most strippers are flexible and open. They like guys wanting to pay, and they like potential boyfriends. They like old guys and they like young guys. It just comes down to what your attitude is. The girls are flexible and they try to see the person underneath the social position.
As far as AMP girls, many of them are interested in outside meetings, as they are more relaxed, and again, the girl wants regulars and civilian relationships. Many of them will say, "How about next time we go someplace else?"
For many of them what is most important to them is that they own their own home. This not easy to do with wage income in the Bay Area either. So for them it is a point of pride. Many of them use this to offer outside home sessions. They ones that do this, I have found, are ones with both brains and beauty. And when they do the inside session with you, they let you see that they are indeed one you would want to be doing longer outside sessions with.
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