We know they lie all the time but how often do you catch a stripper in a lie and they know you have? Was supposed to meet up with a CF this afternoon OTC for a non sexual get together. She gave me a lame excuse about leaving town tonight. So since I wasn't meeting her I went clubbing. I had been there about an hour and a half when who do I see out of the corner of my eye but the CF. Don't know if she saw me, and I don't know if she knows I saw her but I just kept getting dances with other dancers and then I just up and left when I was done. Never said a word to her and she didn't approach me if she saw me.
She just lost her CF status. if she needed to make money she just had to say so.
How many of you would have confronted her? I thought the best recourse was to spend my money on other dancers and not even acknowledge her.
I would've prolly let her catch a glimpse of me and maybe even a quick 1 second eye contact just so she knew I saw her but then kept doing what you were doing.
Ten days ago I asked her if she got her Fathers Day gift in the mail and she says yes.Three days ago she wants to trade me a shirt she bought for me for a shirt she bought for her father.They don't even know they are lying.
^ What gmd said. Besides, what the fuck was the point of meeting up with her for a "non sexual get together" anyway?
Sure she lied - she has an over-emotional PL who wants to burn her time just hanging out with her, while she needed to earn. I'll never understand guys who try to use strippers as a GF substitute. Now I've done a few nights on the town with strippers over the years, but I still got laid at the end of the night. I just don't see the point in taking one OTC if sex isn't part of the equation.
Samsung - No money was to be exchanged. I'm not going to pay her to hang out otc.
Rick/gmd- Some valid points. This is a relatively new fave. Basically trying to work things to get to the sex part. Was trying to get her comfortable to go farther. She's not an extras girl itc. Therefore the non sexual otc meet up. I honestly don't give a shit and when she told me she couldn't meet up I knew it was a lie. If I was over emotional about her I would have confronted her or just gone back to getting dances with her when I saw her in the club. Quite frankly she has contacted me more to talk.
Shadow - I know you were just being a smartass but fuck no! Lol
Honestly, for the most part, I've dispensed with attempts to "get her to go farther" that involve anything beyond interaction in the club. I'm a fat, ugly old guy; if she's going to go "farther" with me, it's gonna be because of the money, not because I'm "wooing" her.
Admittedly, "wooing" has worked out rather spectacularly well for me on two occasions now, but even with these two, it all happened ITC. Once we started OTC, it was about the sex, little else. I've never taken the MILF to eat, or any other non-sex activity, though I've bought lunch on occasion. Likewise, I can count the times I took my ATF to eat or some other non-sex thing on the fingers of one hand. Fairly often in conjunction, before or after the sex, but seldom otherwise.
I've found that most girls who will fuck have few problems saying yes with minimal coaxing. A couple of visits to make sure you're not a cop or completely crazy for ITC, and one or two more ITC sex sessions to meet outside. At most.
Well, there is a big difference between a cancellation and being stood up. In this case, the dancer flaked but did cancel.
Depending on how strong my desire was, I probably would have approached her, got some dances and bought her some drinks. I would not mention the missed date. My objective is to get down OTC not to create some BS drama.
Lone wolf - I don't have a high desire for her. She's cool and easy to talk to but moving on from her is easy. There are no dancers that are indispensable.
I don't care that she blew me off. It's typical SS. I had dances with eight different dancers yesterday and finished with a happy ending so it was a good day. I just found it entertaining to catch her in the lie.
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Sure she lied - she has an over-emotional PL who wants to burn her time just hanging out with her, while she needed to earn. I'll never understand guys who try to use strippers as a GF substitute. Now I've done a few nights on the town with strippers over the years, but I still got laid at the end of the night. I just don't see the point in taking one OTC if sex isn't part of the equation.
Rick/gmd- Some valid points. This is a relatively new fave. Basically trying to work things to get to the sex part. Was trying to get her comfortable to go farther. She's not an extras girl itc. Therefore the non sexual otc meet up. I honestly don't give a shit and when she told me she couldn't meet up I knew it was a lie. If I was over emotional about her I would have confronted her or just gone back to getting dances with her when I saw her in the club. Quite frankly she has contacted me more to talk.
Shadow - I know you were just being a smartass but fuck no! Lol
Admittedly, "wooing" has worked out rather spectacularly well for me on two occasions now, but even with these two, it all happened ITC. Once we started OTC, it was about the sex, little else. I've never taken the MILF to eat, or any other non-sex activity, though I've bought lunch on occasion. Likewise, I can count the times I took my ATF to eat or some other non-sex thing on the fingers of one hand. Fairly often in conjunction, before or after the sex, but seldom otherwise.
I've found that most girls who will fuck have few problems saying yes with minimal coaxing. A couple of visits to make sure you're not a cop or completely crazy for ITC, and one or two more ITC sex sessions to meet outside. At most.
Depending on how strong my desire was, I probably would have approached her, got some dances and bought her some drinks. I would not mention the missed date. My objective is to get down OTC not to create some BS drama.
I don't care that she blew me off. It's typical SS. I had dances with eight different dancers yesterday and finished with a happy ending so it was a good day. I just found it entertaining to catch her in the lie.
Holding strippers to civvi standards is like holding the government to the standards of private industry – it ain't happening – it is what it is.
When is there; take it; when it's not there; just take it as a lost business opportunity which happens in business.
Strippers are like public transportation – just be glad when you are actually able to catch one.
Strippers will flake out – that is a given – even when they are due to get paid – if not getting paid; then expect even less = just the way it is.
Yeah, I don't blame a stripper for flaking on OTC when she's not getting paid