Is "Slut" a term of endearment now? Meet hot dancer that insisted that I call her a slut while she was dancing for me, and every time I did it she grabbed my junk. Sort of a turn on talking dirty to her. Afterwards was chatting with her and the stripper said she hit one of the "adult clubs" in Atlanta and was doing multiple guys at the same time. She definitely has graduated to slut class now.
I think its endearing but I doubt that most women do. But of course strippers are an exception to many rules. Please PM me her name so I can see if I think she considers it endearing the next time I'm there.
I once told a dancer that I couldn't get a dance from her because her name was the same as one of my grand daughter's. She replied to call her anything I want. I said "How about bitch" and she said "that'll work" So once again it's all about the money.
BTW the Trapeze Club is classified as a swingers club.
Lopaw, "Yankee Doodle" used to be an insult that the British threw at the Colonials, but the Colonials owned it with pride, much to the chagrin of the Brits.
Some women like degrading talk while fucking (or faux fucking like during a lap dance). I think it's a question of context. If I called any of my dancers a slut, they'd get very pissed at me. Well...maybe my #2 would like it. I'll try it and report back.
Exactly, PhantomGeek. Once a group of people take a term and make it their own, it can be very empowering..and very confusing for those clueless about it.
I give and take verbal abuse all the time at the club. I can't visit without someone calling me an asshole, a dick, a whore, etc. Then again, I've gotten off some good ones, like "dirty crack whore" and "stupid gutter slut".
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BTW the Trapeze Club is classified as a swingers club.