Is "Slut" a term of endearment now? Meet hot dancer that insisted that I call her a slut while she was dancing for me, and every time I did it she grabbed my junk. Sort of a turn on talking dirty to her. Afterwards was chatting with her and the stripper said she hit one of the "adult clubs" in Atlanta and was doing multiple guys at the same time. She definitely has graduated to slut class now.
Mental note to self: Visit Atlanta Adult Clubs.
Your experience?
I'll wait till I find I woman I'm not giving money to put up with me who likes being called a slut before I'm convinced.
I once told a dancer that I couldn't get a dance from her because her name was the same as one of my grand daughter's. She replied to call her anything I want. I said "How about bitch" and she said "that'll work" So once again it's all about the money.
BTW the Trapeze Club is classified as a swingers club.
I've called a few girls sluts in my day. Usually it's the ones who like being spanked and dominated.
Nothing like owning a word that used to be a stigma. More power to 'em.
One of my favorites used to tell me she was going to give me a dance "like a good old slut." That really seemed to make her happy.
Lopaw, "Yankee Doodle" used to be an insult that the British threw at the Colonials, but the Colonials owned it with pride, much to the chagrin of the Brits.
Somebody try calling Diva a slut and see if she thinks it's endearing. I thought it was kinda cool when she called me a disgusting pig, so who knows.
Some women like degrading talk while fucking (or faux fucking like during a lap dance). I think it's a question of context. If I called any of my dancers a slut, they'd get very pissed at me. Well...maybe my #2 would like it. I'll try it and report back.
My ATF used to say that she was my slut. I tell girls that I am a slut when they complain about me seeing other girls.
GMD - I do the same thing. :)
Exactly, PhantomGeek. Once a group of people take a term and make it their own, it can be very empowering..and very confusing for those clueless about it.
Never thought of the girls owning the word slut, to take off the negative context. Nice move by the strippers!
I give and take verbal abuse all the time at the club. I can't visit without someone calling me an asshole, a dick, a whore, etc. Then again, I've gotten off some good ones, like "dirty crack whore" and "stupid gutter slut".
I think its endearing but I doubt that most women do. But of course strippers are an exception to many rules. Please PM me her name so I can see if I think she considers it endearing the next time I'm there.