Recently I was having lunch with a favorite OTC and she was talking about work at the club. The server overheard a few comments and asked where she worked. My fav immediately said "I'm a dancer at xyz club." We've been back to the same lunch spot a few other times and have had the same server so she and my fav discuss the club pretty openly. I would have thought the girls would try to keep it a secret out in the real world but this girl owns what she does. Anybody else have this come up and how did the girl handle it?
I've known a few girls who completely own it and are open about it. On the other hand, my current girl won't even say the word "stripper", just "dancer" or "entertainer", and in a million years wouldn't admit it outside the club.
The wife of my former co-worked had no problems telling others what she did. Even had pictures of her enhancements to show. Honestly, if a dancer ever needed enhancements, she did. Even after the work, not much to show for it.
Generally, my experience has been with those above. The dancers that I've seen OTC, and nearly all of them have included lunch or dinner out, don't want it known in public that they're "dancers." When we talk about strip clubs while in a restaurant, they always would speak in hushed tones.
This next part is a little off your topic: The curious waitress you mentioned reminds me very much of a dancer I knew briefly. She was a waitress at a Denny's near a club I used to go to a lot. Since it was the only restaurant open 24 hrs., near the club, several dancers from that club would go there for breakfast after the club closed at 2:00 a.m. The waitress heard so many stories about how much money these dancers made, that she tried dancing herself briefly, including a few OTCs with me. She was certainly hot enough to be a dancer, but I know she only danced for a few months. I lost track of her after that.
I don't like to admit my profession to total strangers. As unfair as it is, people tend to look down on those who strip for a living. I wonder if it is any different and less uptight in other countries.
Diva, If you want to get a dancer's opinion who's from another country, I believe that "LenaSmirnova" is from England. (Or at least another English speaking country than the U.S.) It would be really interesting to get her reaction. See her profile at:
I took one out to Dinner at Chili's a couple of months ago and she was wearing a Follies T-shirt. So I guess it didn't bother her but it bothered me a little. I didn't want people to know the that the young girl having dinner with me was a stripper. I'm glad it was kinda dark in there. LOL.
Mine have always been secretive about it. But the ATF always wore very slutty clothes to dinner that she knew I loved and that made her look like a stripper. Given that and our age difference some I'm sure guessed she was an escort or stripper.
SC, why do you care. I think it's kinda fun to walk around with an obvious stripper on my arm, especially if she's hot. I especially enjoy the judgmental reaction from women my age.
When anyone looks at the sweet young stripper I go out with in Tucson, there should be no doubt what she does for a living. She just "screams" stripper when you see her. Tats, piercings, scantily dressed, heels, it's pretty damn obvious and I enjoy it.
It didn't bother me at all...just surprised me. We had lunch there a few times and usually my fav just wore shorts and tshirt. Once she wore a dress that just barely covered her ass..another surprise. And for what it's worth, the server could definitely work in any strip club where I might want to go.
From what I have seen, usually the more high end the club, the more open they are about it. These girls are usually "profesional" (in every sense of the word) strippers and they see it as a semi-long term career and embrace what they do. They are usually younger, really good looking, and haven't really experienced hard tes.
The girls who work at the lower end go-go bars or raunchy little strip clubs usually are only there because they have few other options, are embarrassed that they work there, and initially see it as a short term situation that, when the situation changes, plan on leaving, so they want no one to know they are a stripper. They are many times a little older, many times single moms, and they think life is out to get them.
Of coarse, though, there are always exceptions to the rule.
I asked my favorite black dancer if her parents knew what she did for a living. She replied that they both knew. Her mother told her to go for it but her father strongly disapproves.
JohnSmith - I think most of us on here try to keep our clubbing on the down low. The restaurant that I took her to is in the small town where I live. I am constantly running into people that I know from work, etc.
There's a big range of feelings that women have about strangers getting horny for them. For some women it's very empowering, they feel like, yeah bitch, I got your remote control right-here-RIGHT-here. This type of chick will dress hot and claim to be a stripper even if she's really an accountant. Of course. women who feel this way tend to like being strippers a lot more. For a more average type chick, it bothers/scares her how guys are often very demeaning to a woman who is out on the street or in public looking good. I think that's true of most dancers too, since they do it for the money and not because they find themselves shaking their tatas at all us drunken dorks.
My last favorite had a problem with the police. Some idiot bf of a friend of hers took a gun out of a police car. How he got it, well, I guess the police did something stupid. She got hauled in but just for questioning. She had to tell her mother about her job. She told me her mother prayed for days. I would imagine telling family is worse that friends .
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This next part is a little off your topic: The curious waitress you mentioned reminds me very much of a dancer I knew briefly. She was a waitress at a Denny's near a club I used to go to a lot. Since it was the only restaurant open 24 hrs., near the club, several dancers from that club would go there for breakfast after the club closed at 2:00 a.m. The waitress heard so many stories about how much money these dancers made, that she tried dancing herself briefly, including a few OTCs with me. She was certainly hot enough to be a dancer, but I know she only danced for a few months. I lost track of her after that.
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SC, why do you care. I think it's kinda fun to walk around with an obvious stripper on my arm, especially if she's hot. I especially enjoy the judgmental reaction from women my age.
The girls who work at the lower end go-go bars or raunchy little strip clubs usually are only there because they have few other options, are embarrassed that they work there, and initially see it as a short term situation that, when the situation changes, plan on leaving, so they want no one to know they are a stripper. They are many times a little older, many times single moms, and they think life is out to get them.
Of coarse, though, there are always exceptions to the rule.
JohnSmith - I think most of us on here try to keep our clubbing on the down low. The restaurant that I took her to is in the small town where I live. I am constantly running into people that I know from work, etc.
My last favorite had a problem with the police. Some idiot bf of a friend of hers took a gun out of a police car. How he got it, well, I guess the police did something stupid. She got hauled in but just for questioning. She had to tell her mother about her job. She told me her mother prayed for days. I would imagine telling family is worse that friends .