Every strip club i've been too i got much attetion from the ladies there, they will come and introduce themselves to me. But this club im about to write about us just the , as soon as you get in it's byob and the fat old bartender lady forces you to buy a 5$ bottle of water and if you finish it she tells you to buy another that you need something around to drink. This is my 2nd time there and most of these chicks are a 2-4 maybe 5 just because im being nice , and they all seem to only talk to their usually cilents . The thing is that i ask two strippers for LD in the back and they told me after they finish dancing, and what they do? Go back to their casuals and talk while im showing money . These chicks look like they dont wanna be there and had no personality i know their strippers but damn, and this place been rated one of the number one clubs in my state which is bs . So has anyone had a club where they always had bad experience with? Would like to hear some
Write a review of your experience and mention the names of the lackluster dancers you referred to, if you got them. That would be much appreciated by those who are thinking of going to that club.
There are two clubs in Yuma AZ. Never been there, but what people say in Yelp reviews is similar to what you are saying. The dancers don't really want to do anything.
Most of the time I presume that it is because they aren't making money. There had been a club Foxy Lady in Newark CA. There were only two dancers there. One of them kept walking off the stage in the middle of her set. She never took her mini-dress off. Finally she took her thigh high stockings off, making her basically street suitable. She danced a bit. Then she took one of my $1 tips and held it up high and let it flutter down to the stage, as she walked out the front door. IT was all very disruptive to the ambiance.
She might not have liked me because I had come in there and she had offered to get me my drink, and I asked her about a dancer who was sometimes there who is part of this group of Latina's who are the most loved escorts in the region. That I had asked about this other girl probably set her off.
But most of all I think it is just that if there are no customers there, then there is no way for the dancers to make money.
At some clubs the dancers do not approach customers for dances. You have to approach them. I am very comfortable with this.
The most central action at strip clubs should always be on the stage, when the girls take their turn. In dives, sometimes $1 goes quite far.
So as long as they can keep the order going, the tipping rail is the best place to start engaging with the girls. I would not want to go into the LD booths or the VIP room with a girl if I had not gotten to interact with her and develop some rapport with her at the tip rail. Its either got to be that, or at some of these more extreme places with her sitting on my lap. I would never just go up to a girl and ask her for a dance, or accept her offer of one, if there were not some existing rapport between she and I.
It makes a big difference to the girl if she can tell that you are attracted to her. It will make it possible for her to be much more open to you. The tipping rail is the place to let her see this.
Usually if they have three dancers, they can keep the order going. If it gets down to just two though, then there will be long gaps.
Also, at these dives, when there are no customers there, the owner does not have much of a whip to crack.
At some of these places the girls are just there to set up OTC.
As I read posts and reviews, at some of the clubs the reason the girls are there is to do FS-ITC. I guess it must be on the floor of the VIP room. Maybe because they didn't know you, they weren't interested in engaging with you. Talking with someone does take energy.
If a dancer wants to read a book or talk to someone else, she can tune people out.
Maybe go back during a more busy time and you should be able to figure out what is up. With some of these places, with OTC and FS-ITC, there is more than meets they eye.
Getting ignored in a strip club is a very common complaint. So is the opposite extreme where dancers badger you constantly. Strip clubs are hardly a constant in knowing what to expect. I'm sure everybody here has had either one or the other instance(or both) happen to them at some point in their strip club travels.
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Most of the time I presume that it is because they aren't making money. There had been a club Foxy Lady in Newark CA. There were only two dancers there. One of them kept walking off the stage in the middle of her set. She never took her mini-dress off. Finally she took her thigh high stockings off, making her basically street suitable. She danced a bit. Then she took one of my $1 tips and held it up high and let it flutter down to the stage, as she walked out the front door. IT was all very disruptive to the ambiance.
She might not have liked me because I had come in there and she had offered to get me my drink, and I asked her about a dancer who was sometimes there who is part of this group of Latina's who are the most loved escorts in the region. That I had asked about this other girl probably set her off.
But most of all I think it is just that if there are no customers there, then there is no way for the dancers to make money.
At some clubs the dancers do not approach customers for dances. You have to approach them. I am very comfortable with this.
The most central action at strip clubs should always be on the stage, when the girls take their turn. In dives, sometimes $1 goes quite far.
So as long as they can keep the order going, the tipping rail is the best place to start engaging with the girls. I would not want to go into the LD booths or the VIP room with a girl if I had not gotten to interact with her and develop some rapport with her at the tip rail. Its either got to be that, or at some of these more extreme places with her sitting on my lap. I would never just go up to a girl and ask her for a dance, or accept her offer of one, if there were not some existing rapport between she and I.
It makes a big difference to the girl if she can tell that you are attracted to her. It will make it possible for her to be much more open to you. The tipping rail is the place to let her see this.
Usually if they have three dancers, they can keep the order going. If it gets down to just two though, then there will be long gaps.
Also, at these dives, when there are no customers there, the owner does not have much of a whip to crack.
At some of these places the girls are just there to set up OTC.
As I read posts and reviews, at some of the clubs the reason the girls are there is to do FS-ITC. I guess it must be on the floor of the VIP room. Maybe because they didn't know you, they weren't interested in engaging with you. Talking with someone does take energy.
If a dancer wants to read a book or talk to someone else, she can tune people out.
Maybe go back during a more busy time and you should be able to figure out what is up. With some of these places, with OTC and FS-ITC, there is more than meets they eye.
SJG