Okay... I'm new to this part of the board, but I couldn't resist. Excellent topic suggestion.
Here's my tried and proven technique. You sit alone at the bar or a table, with your back to the stage. Pretend not be interested in the dancing going on. Turn down offers for dances, no matter how hot they are. When the object of your desire (AKA the girl you've set your sights on) asks if you want a dance, decline, but quickly invite her to sit for a drink telling her that you'll give her the amount a dance costs, just because she's losing that money by spending time with a guy that isn't interested in getting a dance.
This definitely works!
Another tip... (or maybe it should be another topic?) How to get a stripper back to your hotel room...


Legs, not back, gentlemen...legs, not back.