Finding a 3some

We're a happily married couple who wants to find another female to play with, but we're unsure of how to go about it. Bars don't seem the best way to meet someone, and some of the dating sites are a bit hardcore and seem untrustworthy. We like to go to strip clubs, look, and get dances dances together, but we're ready for the next step. Any advice is appreciated.

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  • pabloantonio
    11 years ago
    So Billy, you come to a stripclub review website for advice on 3-Ways? Shouldn't you try the websites where this stuff is advertized?

    3-Ways are a fun fantasy which always ends with somebody losing, and usually you are the loser.

    Just my opinion.
  • Alucard
    11 years ago
    I have the same opinion. TOO much trouble & cost TOO much.
  • lopaw
    11 years ago
    Go to a stripclub to tip the dancers, get some couple's lapdances as foreplay and then the two of you go back home and fuck. Trying to pick up a stripper for a possible 3-some will most likely not turn out well. Many dancers avoid couples because of stuff like that. They want your money, not an invitation back to your place. Best advice is to go visit websites that specialize in what you are looking for.
  • bang69
    11 years ago
    my only suggestion is to go to a swingers club
  • gawker
    11 years ago
    Check out Backpage Escorts. I've seen several in my area mentioning their availability for couples.
  • tumblingdice
    11 years ago
    Don't listen to these dolts. Threeways are a dime a dozen.Many times for free.Nothing better than slipping it in while your new found friend is munching on your GF's muff. The cherry on top is walking into the club several months later and having said new found friend say "I remember you".
  • Dolfan
    11 years ago
    I tend to agree w/ dice. How many people on here pick up strippers for OTC action on a regular basis? I don't know about the clubs in your area, but around here its not taboo to ask. Find a club where the dancers to a little extra and ask. I can't see being a couple being that much different - the girls will go home with girls or guys, or bring another stripper, what's the difference?
  • shadowcat
    11 years ago
    I'm close to doing a 3some tonight. I'm just two girls short. :)
  • SlickSpic
    11 years ago
    @Shadow-With the zinger.
  • skibum609
    11 years ago
    If you want a threesome you can go to a stripclub and pay a dancer, use an escort, or join a dating site like Adult Friend Finder. We've used AFF for 15 years.
  • friction_lover
    11 years ago
    This is a strip club review site. In my opinion you could find what you want from private dance, but will cost a premium for perhaps not the experience you want. Have enjoyed 3-some's with girlfriends and sugar babies off SA. Depending on area your babies will vary. In Florida we have tons of college sugar babies and great strip clubs in Tampa, Space Coast, and Miami. Best of luck to you.
  • Michellemarie
    11 years ago
    As a long time stripper, I can assure you that you will only be able to "pick up" a stripper for a three some if you are willing to pay her (no judgement intended if you are). Strippers get dozens of offers a week and there is absolutely no way to distinguish yourself from the rest of the hot, young, fun, friendly couples that they've already turned down. As I'm sure you know, women can have all of the sex they want at any time, so your willingness to have sex with her is not a selling point at all. My advice? Try to find another couple to explore with. Yes, another man having sex with your wife is an uncomfortable idea for some, but it will give you a lot more options and can cut down on potential jealousy issues.
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