Most of the dancers I have ever known don't have ideal SO in their lives except for a couple lesbians. Their boyfriends/husbands are typically unstable types who are more of a millstone around their necks than an asset.
Well today I asked one of my favorites if she would ever meet me OTC for FS and she said "Yes but only if my boy friend is out of town". So I guess you could say that I don't give a shit.
People in general have lots of problems in their relationships, even more so in their 20s. Since strippers and men who seriously try to love them are often looked down on and treated like trash, that's obviously going to put extra strain on their relationships. People who have emotional and/or substance abuse problems are already thought of as trash, so they have little disincentive to prevent them from becoming a stripper or loving a stripper.
Who cares what other people in the club think? I never have that much. I do try to stay out of trouble though. Not including the dancers I've met called trouble. That is one dancer name I remember. I just don't remember the face to go with it. If you don't bother to tell anyone you are seeing a stripper, how is anyone supposed to even know?
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All these words described me and yes I've been dating a stripper going 3 years now