what does she want-a vanity thing

I thought this topic of discussion wouldn't do harm to post and see opinions of others. I know I've posted threads that lets say had gotten mixed reactions but here goes anyways. And I never before 2001 thought something like this were true although I have heard of this.

If an attractive girl/female/dancer doesn't want your money she wants you or she wants sex-Well you lucked out.
If an attractive girl/female/dancer doesn't want your money nor sex(maybe specifically not right away)-You can assume she wants a bf a relationship or to be friends.
Now if a girl/female/dancer doesn't want your money doesn't want sex nor doesn't want a relationship maybe she's already taken or not looking not seeking or wants a friend.
If you get to this Last point where either of these two happen
1)she ignores you/constantly ignores after your first encounter/first few encounters/chats-(Has happened to Me alot on online chatting/dating and since 2001 in r/l just to point out)although this is said not to find opinions/or advice
2)She constantly approaches to say Hi and bye and nothing else everytime you bump heads
Should you ignore her right away or start giving her the ignore button(saying for instance you were in a/the club or if say other strippers would be jealous or assume somethings wrong with you) or should you try to woo her with money/gifts/and or compliments to acknowledge that she's a wonderful person if not attractive.

Having said that however comes this If this an occuring thing with females must one assume that all they want other then complimants is to be stared at as if they are trying to say I know he/they want Me they all do.a vanity thing.

My opinion later