player

considering it's a strip club & you pay those women, yeah, not exactly a player.

Would be a compliment if it wasn't a strip club though.

Thats the wierd part. I have women around me but most time I dont always get dances. However I talk to them.

Plus more dancers imply that to me.One kinda imply I might even be a pimp. I get upset because I dont want to be labeled as a pimp

She may be trying to stroke your ego – women, and especially dancers, know men like that.

She's pulling your chain Lol.

Thats really kinda a turn off to me.

I had a dancer call me that too. I thought it was ridiculous. Was that after you slept with her?

Dancers have called me just about everything. One or two dancers thought I was an artist. One asked me if I was a professional masseuse. One dancer even thought I might be part of the mafia. She looked terrified that night and tried to avoid me seeing her as much as possible. One dancer had this weird idea that I ran an online web site. Another dancer thought I might be a vampire. She was into vampires dressing up all in black and giving me a bite. They think whatever they want to. At some clubs in NC, many thought I was in the military.

She's just trying to make you feel good by making it seem like you got game. Always remember that anything spoken by a stripper in the club is a ploy to get you to spend money....nothing more.

Don’t take it so seriously – talk is cheap. Dancers will say all kinds of crap and sometimes their comments are not the smartest, or correct, ones.

In a strip club - it's really more of a 'payer' than a 'player'

Nothing wrong with that, as long as you know what you're getting into.

i.e. you have to take what strippers say with a grain of salt.

I believe the correct answer was that she was trying to stroke your ego. They have experience trying to manipulate guys like that. Some dancers will say whatever they think might stroke your ego.

Shark,

I understand that. However, when I be referenced by one as a pimp, then it goes overboard. That make me think I am a pusher for women.

I guess when being implyed that I just didnt know how to react to that.

Does it really matter to you?

He who questions ones existence probably knew not what he was.

Alucard, no but just being in a image of that perspective just confusing.

Gator, thats true by your statement. However, what if he thinks is not what being presented?

Maybe she mistakenly thought you were the son of a golfer

Lol motohead.

why do some people overthink this shit? It's all bullshit in the club....just play along and have a good time.

“… why do some people overthink this shit? …”

LOL. Some may not have enough SC, and more precisely TUSCL, experience, to know in SCs it’s 99% BS.

I agree. A pimp is overboard. It would make me wonder what she knows or her experience though. Could it be a test she pulls on anyone she even remotely thinks might be one? I have a hard time figuring out what some dancers are thinking.

I know what you mean shark.

Probably just a joke to stroke your ego a bit. Like when they say you have such a huge cock. Don't overthink it, man.

Just get to pimpin those hos mother fucker

next time a girl calls you a player, tell her that so is every other guy. its a strip club after all. That ought to quit with the dumb compliments.

I myself have never been given compliments other than I have a big dick. Even though a lot of girls say that, that has to be the most obvious ss I've ever heard. Other than that, I barely get approached much less "complimented"

@joey2002: I get comments similar to that once in a while. I just respond with "No, I'm a creepy old pervert." When she objects, and if she's someone in whom I'm interested, I'll say something like "I like having sex with girls half my age and I don't mind paying for it. What does that make me?"

That serves two purposes. One, it lets them know that I know about their bullshit, and second, lets them know what I'm interested.

Nice! You guys got some good lines.