VIP or just multiple dances?

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• NoOtherAlternatives

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  11 years ago

  Oh yeah...if I did the 12 dances, I would most likely split it up between two dancers (6 and 6).
• Alucard

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  11 years ago

  Did you pay up front for the VIP experience? If you did, that is a mistake. The dancer has NO incentive to perform. Discuss your expectation for the VIP experience. BE straight forward and direct in what you want to happen. Discuss and decide with the dancer the amount of any tip that she may expect above and beyond the cost of the time in the room. BE SURE you both are in agreement. I would not on a consistent basis patronize a club that insists on up front payment for time in a VIP Room. TOO much chance of getting NOTHING!
• shadowcat

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  11 years ago

  Sounds like you are clubbing in an expensive area. Knowing what you want is the first question. Unless you want extras, no point in blowing your cash in VIP. If extras is what you want, then you want VIP. If you want VIP, just make damn sure before you go, what you will be getting and how much you will be paying. Tipping depends on how much you enjoyed what you got. If I had to pay $250 for 30 minutes, I wouldn't tip but thats just me.
• staxwell

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  11 years ago

  I'm gonna be "that guy" and say: if there's no sex being had in the VIP, the VIP isn't what a VIP should be. If you just want the dances and fantasy and blah blah, then get the most for your money with multiple floor dances. Some of the girls get lazy once you get them in the VIP just for dances, and the money's already there's. I had one girl who decided she just wanted to lay on me once we got back there. If you're just getting floor dances: you can get as many dances as you want from as many girls as you want. If you don't like the dance you can cut it off and move on to the next one. With VIP you kinda get what you pay for. "if I sprung for the $250 again, would the girl expect more for that relatively small extra (besides a $25 tip or so)?" If you spend $250 again, YOU should expect more than a relatively small extra.
• tenisbum1776

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  11 years ago

  My opinion? Girls want to cultivate customers that will take them to VIP or Champaign Rooms. Even though the house takes more money, the girl has a bulk cash payment in hand without trying to hussle it from different customers at $20 per dance. Bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. You are correct that much more and varied mileage can be obtained by using seperate private dances. Use them to determine your potential VIP candidates. I know in one of my local clubs, there are NO cameras in the private dance areas but their are camera in the VIP rooms. Guess where all the "extra action" takes place in this club?
• NoOtherAlternatives

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  11 years ago

  I didn't pay "upfront" but she told me the cost, so the $ amount was known. To be more specific, it was $50 to the house and $200 to the dancer. I would think that it would be hard to discuss with the dancer what is going to go on in there before things actually happen. Obviously, the dancer isn't going to be a cop, but how does she know I am not one that is going to say "hey, are you going to finish me off in there?" and she says yes and then gets busted. Kind of like setting up an escort: you aren't supposed to say anything related to sex and/or money (I did that once and was scared shitless that I was going to get busted).
• rh48hr

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  11 years ago

  $250 for 30 min? If you do not have a guarantee of something extra going in, I would stick to the dances. That is a lot of coinage my friend. You can probably set something up OTC with them without having to do VIP.
• Doc_Holliday

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  11 years ago

  If you're just looking for lap dances or old fashioned handies, stick to lap dances. VIP is for sex, blow jobs, water sports, animal play, midget play, ass play, sadomasochism, and anything else you don't want the public to see. If you didn't get any of that, you got ripped off, son.
• staxwell

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  11 years ago

  " I am not one that is going to say "hey, are you going to finish me off in there?" " Try it out. See what happens. The worse she can say is "no".
• staxwell

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  11 years ago

  Lol, the old Doc is back. You seemed kinda shell shocked for a while.
• Doc_Holliday

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  11 years ago

  That girl you were with, just hours before in that very same room, was letting one guy pound her in the ass, another her cunt, while blowing another guy, all the while a donkey's pissing on all of them and a midget is underneath choking the life out of her and another is using her tits for a speedbag! All for the same price. Why do you think the club gets such a ridiculous cut?? They have to clean that nasty shit up every time.
• NoOtherAlternatives

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  11 years ago

  I did test her out with a 3 dance session before she mentioned VIP and based on what I got in the LD area I thought I would at least get more of the same, but like I said, it kind of went down hill. There were a couple minor improvements, but they did not outweigh everything else going downhill. I did find out later that I apparently picked the wrong girl based on past reviews (wish I remembered names when I went that night). There are supposedly no monitoring equipment in this club's VIP. I think when I go back in a couple weeks, I'll try the same MO but with a different girl: test out at 3/50, see what she says about VIP and if it sounds good try it again. If the same thing happens, I'll learn my lesson (some times it takes getting beat upside the head twice for it to sink in!) and just stick to LDs for a while. The LD areas in this place are the most private I've ever seen (but I've only been to about 5 different places in my life time. Thanks guys! I'll probably stop posting unnecessarily on this thread unless something important comes up but will continue to listen intently!
• Papi_Chulo

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  11 years ago

  "… I am not one that is going to say "hey, are you going to finish me off in there? …" In most clubs, especially in those where extras are offered, these questions are as common as asking how much a beer is. It is part and parcel of the SC culture. BTW – it is as much “how” you ask as “what” you ask. If one asks un-politely, you may get a bad response no matter what it is you are asking (e.g. asking for a drink). The SC is a sex business – of course dancers are asked for sex *all* the time – but again, one needs to ask respectfully – asking “bitch do you fuck” may not go over so well – but asking “what is available in the VIP room” is nothing wrong w/ that.
• NoOtherAlternatives

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  11 years ago

  Okay, one last post then I'm done...just thought of a good way to approach it. If the next girl asks for VIP, I'll just tell her something along the lines of "I don't know...I did that last time I was here and was disappointed. I don't want to pay extra money just for you to dance for me in a private area." Maybe that would give an indication of what SHE thinks should happen back there. Either that or I'm too soft/scared and this game isn't for me HAHA. Papi: I am always respectful. I would never be mean or insulting to a dancer...that's no way to treat someone that is kind enough to dangle their naked body in my face or lap. :-)
• ClubLurk

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  11 years ago

  I would say that it depends on how often you're looking to frequent this club and/or if you can find a girl that you'd like to see on a semi-regular basis. If you find a few girls that you like and they realize you could potentially become a regular, they will usually be pretty blunt about what they'll do for you in the back. However, be VERY aware that about half of them (if not more) will tell you whatever you want to hear just to get you in the back. I would also be cautious about ever telling a stripper that you're in town on business or just passing through the area. In my experience, they're much more likely to try and rip you off any way they can because you aren't coming back and they feel confident that they aren't risking any loss by mistreating you. In general, the dances are probably your best bet at least at first. Test out the merchandise and there's a good chance that the girls will tell you everything you want to know. Don't be afraid to negotiate about the VIP if you find a girl you think you might like to see again.
• Papi_Chulo

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  11 years ago

  “… I am always respectful. I would never be mean or insulting to a dancer …” I was just trying to make the point that it is ok to ask as long as one asks in an appropriate manner . And as others have said; VIP is expensive – so before one drops that kind of change, one should have worked out the details. Believe me, if you don’t ask for what you want (even if you get turned down), then often times the dancer will give you/me as little as possible while trying to get the most $$$ possible from us (especially if one has already paid up front or agreed to pay a certain amount). Dancers know better than you what goes on in the VIP – so the worst reply you may get from a dancer is “I don’t do that” – but believe me, they are probably asked very very often for more than LDs – they would not be shocked or offended if one asked.
• rh48hr

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  11 years ago

  Suggestion -- Go to [view link]. See how they talk about us as patrons, then decide how you want to proceed. Now while all dancers don't think the way those on stripperweb do, don't let yourself be fooled into thinking that you are nothing more than a cash machine for many. Ask for what you want, if you don't find it with one, there is a good chance another will be along shortly who will say yes.
• she_is_covfefe

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  11 years ago

  I prefer multiple dances.
• rl27

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  11 years ago

  I generally get better dances when I get three to five songs from a dancer, than I do with her in a VIP dance. The only time I go for a VIP is if I know the dancer well, the VIP prices are less than the typical 7-9 songs for a half hour, I know I am going to get a better lap dance, and I know the bouncer's won't interrupt. That isn't that often. I have only gotten half hour dances from 7 different dancers in 20 years, and only 4 of those more than once. Reasons that VIP dances are typically tamer can vary. The club monitors the VIP area more strictly, the dancer doesn't have to work as hard to keep you going for another song since you already paid for a half hour. The customer might make an ass of himself in the VIP since he expects more. Most often isn't because the dancer will make less money from a half hour VIP than she makes during the busy times. Because of this Several dancers have offered discounts for a half hour of regular lap dances. Such as $150 to $200 for a half hour vs $250 to $300 in VIP.
• deogol

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  11 years ago

  No VIP - I have no interest in being her "friend" and "great customer" or what the fuck they want to call it. Your at a buffet, enjoy it I say.
• rl27

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  11 years ago

  Last paragraph should start. Most often is because the dancer will make less money from half hour VIP than she makes during the busy times.
• Playcity

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  11 years ago

  I would stick with the lapdances bro, unless I know I'm getting extra in the VIP. Also in my experience with lapdances, the more you buy the better it gets.
• Clackport

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  11 years ago

  I would stick with the lapdances, especially if they're good. I've only done with ATF with 4 girls. One of the girls was my ATF, one of the girls was the hottest stripper I've ever seen in my life, one of the girls offered me a 100 buck discount in VIP, and the last girl was just fucking hot. 2 of the 4 girls provided me a good VIP experience, so VIP can be hit or miss.
• staxwell

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  11 years ago

  "Also in my experience with lapdances, the more you buy the better it gets." This is sometimes very true. I especially like the girls who put their hand inside the pants and give a few strokes right before the song ends so I can't refuse another dance.