Random thought

So I was at the club recently and a dancer was giving bar side dances to get tips. The dancer was about a 7/10 with a nice spinner body but better than te available dancers at the moment. So she gives a dance to a guy near me but he declines and tells her to stop. He hands her a dollar in her hand and when she tries to get him to put the dollar in her breasts, he declines and hands it to her. Dancer gets mad and complains to the dj and bouncers that he's disrespectful and an ass. So I'm wondering if that's rude for the patron to do so. I thought he was nice about it. I don't know their history other than that he's a regular and was looking for a dancer that wasn't there that night. Just in case you were wondering, I did get a lap dance from her and it was great.