Shot-Girls fair game? a bit confused...
just_sean
So here's a little scenario I've been involved in that I'm hoping to get some advice on.
The first week of this month I went to my regular club to have a few beers and wind down. A lesbo dancer that I had met on one occassion came to chill with me. She doesn't hustle me, just enjoys the no-bullshit company I present with a better awareness of the stripper scene than the average joe presents I suppose. Well on this occassion she invited a shot-girl to come sit at the table.
I have been going to this club on a weekly basis since about february and have always seen this shot-girl working. Truth be told she is the hottest woman in this damn club. The type of girl that you want to follow home just to say thank you to her mother. She would occassionally do fully clothed dances on the b-stages and moved very graceful as well. I'm not much of a drinker so I have no need for shots and therefore had barely even made eye-contact with the girl. When implored to join our table she replied:
"he doesn't buy shots!"
to which the stripper responded;
"neither do any of these other sad fucks so sit down"
Agreeing she took a seat next to me and engaged in conversation with her stripper friend. I settled in to the atmosphere because I had just gotten there but picked up on the shot-girl talking about some cool shit like volunteering at a huge haunted house. That got my interest and once we started talking we hit it off like wildfire. Eventually the stripper noticed a couple gentlemen buying bottle service and decided to go over there. I told the shot-girl not to let me stop her from doing her thing but she decided to stay at the table.
My table became a revolving door of strippers for the next few hours as we sent some of them to do my custom playlist sets. But on this night the dancers were getting a big cold shoulder from me cause this shot-girl was fuckin' hot and extremely interesting to my surprise. It was a big lesson in not judging a book by its cover for me because of how stunning this female was.
Eventually we got to talking about dancing and she mentioned doing dances for a few friends. She went on to talk about how it felt awkward and wasn't her thing, and she couldn't do it for customers because she didn't want to be groped by any perverts. So I leaned in and asked "Well, could you do a dance for me?" She then went on to tell me that she couldn't do just a single lap dance because it makes her have to pay out like the strippers do, which ended up being 25 dollars. Lap dances in this joint are 30 so she'd get a 5 dollar cut on selling a single lap dance. I told her that was fine and she went to pick some music for a dancer to use for our songs.
She ended up picking the overplayed AWOLNation's Sail and Deftones amazing Change (In the House of Flies) and I kid you not, this girl got me harder than I've ever been in this club. I thought I was about to ejector seat the bitch. And I've gone VIP with 2 women here for christ's sake!
So after the night wrapped up, I kind of just left after doing a few other things at the club.
I always play the strip club 50/50. As much as I want to believe the conversations and the things the girl is telling me, part of me is always considering the fact that it could be a hustle. The fact that this girl was a shot-girl was really throwing me off, plus the fact that I did spend money on her made me wonder if it was a hustle. All I can say for sure is that I'm an observant fellow and all the times I've been there I've never seen her do a private dance for anyone. So is there a pursuit to be had here, or is it strip club bullshit?
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The first week of this month I went to my regular club to have a few beers and wind down. A lesbo dancer that I had met on one occassion came to chill with me. She doesn't hustle me, just enjoys the no-bullshit company I present with a better awareness of the stripper scene than the average joe presents I suppose. Well on this occassion she invited a shot-girl to come sit at the table.
I have been going to this club on a weekly basis since about february and have always seen this shot-girl working. Truth be told she is the hottest woman in this damn club. The type of girl that you want to follow home just to say thank you to her mother. She would occassionally do fully clothed dances on the b-stages and moved very graceful as well. I'm not much of a drinker so I have no need for shots and therefore had barely even made eye-contact with the girl. When implored to join our table she replied:
"he doesn't buy shots!"
to which the stripper responded;
"neither do any of these other sad fucks so sit down"
Agreeing she took a seat next to me and engaged in conversation with her stripper friend. I settled in to the atmosphere because I had just gotten there but picked up on the shot-girl talking about some cool shit like volunteering at a huge haunted house. That got my interest and once we started talking we hit it off like wildfire. Eventually the stripper noticed a couple gentlemen buying bottle service and decided to go over there. I told the shot-girl not to let me stop her from doing her thing but she decided to stay at the table.
My table became a revolving door of strippers for the next few hours as we sent some of them to do my custom playlist sets. But on this night the dancers were getting a big cold shoulder from me cause this shot-girl was fuckin' hot and extremely interesting to my surprise. It was a big lesson in not judging a book by its cover for me because of how stunning this female was.
Eventually we got to talking about dancing and she mentioned doing dances for a few friends. She went on to talk about how it felt awkward and wasn't her thing, and she couldn't do it for customers because she didn't want to be groped by any perverts. So I leaned in and asked "Well, could you do a dance for me?" She then went on to tell me that she couldn't do just a single lap dance because it makes her have to pay out like the strippers do, which ended up being 25 dollars. Lap dances in this joint are 30 so she'd get a 5 dollar cut on selling a single lap dance. I told her that was fine and she went to pick some music for a dancer to use for our songs.
She ended up picking the overplayed AWOLNation's Sail and Deftones amazing Change (In the House of Flies) and I kid you not, this girl got me harder than I've ever been in this club. I thought I was about to ejector seat the bitch. And I've gone VIP with 2 women here for christ's sake!
So after the night wrapped up, I kind of just left after doing a few other things at the club.
I always play the strip club 50/50. As much as I want to believe the conversations and the things the girl is telling me, part of me is always considering the fact that it could be a hustle. The fact that this girl was a shot-girl was really throwing me off, plus the fact that I did spend money on her made me wonder if it was a hustle. All I can say for sure is that I'm an observant fellow and all the times I've been there I've never seen her do a private dance for anyone. So is there a pursuit to be had here, or is it strip club bullshit?
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And I'll also point out that it's time to return the favor your getting with all this advice and post a review or two. :)
My first Strip Club experience lasted all of 3 minutes and 26 seconds....Shot Girls....
And now as Georgemic said write a damn review and contribute something to the rest of us swinging dicks! Read the review guidelines and go for it.
We talked for about 10 minutes and I was brutally frank with her. I told her that most veteran customers have no use for shot girls. That it is a waste of money, etc. She thanked me for my insight. Had she been a dancer, I would have been all over that.
Always assume it's strip club bullshit.
"I told her that most veteran customers have no use for shot girls"
Well this veteran customer has finally met a Shot Girl I actually like. :)
You can't possibly be as "veteran" as the old fart around these parts, sc! :)
You can't possibly be as "veteran" as the old fart around these parts, sc! :)"
Well Junior 1st Class Vet then. LOL
I've actually been writing a memoir of all this bullshit just for the hell of it, for entertainment and for memory's sake. Once I realized there was a message board I had to come share some stories and get some opinions.
Yes we need more like you. :)
feel that is about to change, and needs to honestly.
I'm still in the beginning stages of going to strip clubs.
A____ is a great "find" for you. Don't spoil her. :)
On the other hadn I could see a club looking the other way if a shot girl was letting the customers have a grope as part of serving a shot, because that brings in more drink sales and doesn't really compete with the dancers. On the other hand I would never presume that I could grab a feel from the waitresses. I would only try it if she was making it clear or if I saw other customers doing it with impunity.
It would be different if I was thinking about OTC. Particularly if the waitress was outgoing, I would regard the waitress as fair game for OTC.
I've noticed lately, some waitresses have been very friendly and they look pretty good. I saw something resembling stripper tattoos on one girl so I wonder if this is a temporary job for her and she used to dance.
I remember this short little red-head when I was in Vegas last year. Cute enough, and probably would have been game, but looked like she was all heroined out or something.
And this: if she told you it would cost her $25 for the single dance, and she was smoking hot, you could have said you would cover that amount on top of the other costs. Of course I wasn't there and all of my advice is only worth as much as it cost you.
Best of luck and I'm sure other members are looking forward to hearing how it turns out for you -- I know I am.
I'll be seeing how this plays out for my sake and your entertainment for sure. ;-)
Bustanutz