More Stripper Confusion (Or "Does She Really Like Me?," Part MCMX!!)

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luckyone
Florida
Once upon a time, I met this girl. She was dancing at what was, at the time, my favorite club. Wasn't really my type but, boy, this girl could flat-out dance. I have rarely seen anyone who could do it better. She could actually dance and she could do every pole trick and seemed to do it effortlessly. I always tipped her on stage and she would occasionally come by and chat. I refused her dance requests but she still seemed happy to hang out and talk.

Flash forward a year or so and, after not seeing her around (she told me she was moving out of state,) she showed up at another club that I visit from time to time. I was pretty drunk and she was pretty wasted as well and we ended up doing several dances. The dances themselves were not great but we ended up pretty much making out the whole time. We traded numbers and stayed in touch. I visited her at the club a few more times and repeated the previous experience.

She moved around from club to club and I eventually lost touch with her. I later found out she was dealing with a drug problem. I always wondered what happened to her. I honestly just hoped she was doing OK.

So she shows up a few months ago at yet another club. It had probably been almost 2 years since I'd seen her. She told me she'd been sober now for quite a while and had danced several places, including Vegas. I was glad she was OK and she did seem to have her life under control so I was happy about that. And then she disappeared again. OK, this really does have an ending so hang in there.

OK, so a few weeks ago, she pops up again, working at the club where we first got friendly. She seems really happy to see me, hangs out for several hours off and on and insists we trade numbers again. I did get a couple of dances from her but nothing too crazy. Since then, we've stayed in touch on almost a daily basis. If I don't text her, she texts me. A week ago, she tells me she is just hanging out and wants me to come out and drink with her at a regular bar. I had to pass but found it interesting that she just asked.

So I see her last night. Got a couple of dances from her and it was pretty intense. Back to the whole making-out thing again and, while there was no extras, she was grinding hard and seemed to enjoy it as much as I did. At one point, she asks me "So, when are you going to ask me out?" which I had no idea how to respond to. If I didn't know better, I'd actually believe she wanted to "hang out" with me.

Honestly, I've never spent all that much cash on her. I've had numerous dancers suggest OTC activities for pay but she has never said anything about that. She's not a particularly "dirty dancer" which, normally, the pay-for-play girls are. And, like I said, she isn't normally the type I go for. So, what do you all think? Like I said, I don't know what to think.

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Rod8432
13 years ago
Aside from strippers/escorts, I don't normally get sexually involved with someone who I don't see much of a future with. Why open up that can of worms? You mentioned a couple times that you don't see her as "your type," so it appears that getting intimate at any level with her will only lead her on, and leave you frustrated. I'd suggest sticking to OTC. It's much less expensive in the long run and you'll preserve your sanity. Just my 2cents...
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Player11
13 years ago
Looks like she is toying with you. Your trying to chase a jet aircraft in a prop job mentality.

First - engage the target. Ask her if she likes to play or will meet otc. This will stop her toying with u deadass cold. You will also find out if she is for real or just a ROB. Find out what she really wants. Bens are like missles - offer her two or three and she will probably meet u otc. Second meet her at a motel if she will not do u itc. Fuk her brains out. Watch her come back for more.

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obaysch
13 years ago
Ask her out. If you're in the mood for an adventure and are willing to take losses, go for it. Just draw a line in the sand with money. No sugar daddy. No paying for fun outside of the club, ever. You'll know soon enough. If she wants a boyfriend and you want a hot chick with an enormous amount of problems who'll give you great sex for a while until you realize what an idiot you were, go for it.
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SuperDude
13 years ago
Money will be come an issue. No doubt about it.
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Stiletto25
13 years ago
What exactly are you asking? Do you like her? Do you want a relationship with her? Do you just want to have sex for free? Do you want her to leave you alone? Do you think she's going to cut off your skin and wear it to her birthday?
What do you want from her?
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jackslash
13 years ago
What do I think? I think she wants your money and will have sex with you OTC if you offer her enough.
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Alucard
13 years ago
As Stiletto25 has asked, figure out what you want from her if anything & go with your GUT feeling. You may need to ask some direct personal questions.
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steve229
13 years ago
And I thought I wrote long, rambling posts...
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vincemichaels
13 years ago
ZZZZZZZZZZZZ. OOPS, I woke up dreaming about babes like that. Sure as shooting, she's a woman. Do it, but keep a hand on your wallet. Money will become an issue.
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Clubber
13 years ago
I'm with 25 on this one...


vm,

With all the "ZZZZZZZZZZZZ's", I thought you were in a LD room again. :) I heard about your falling asleep during dances.


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vincemichaels
13 years ago
Yeah, Clubber. I'm an old fart. I fall asleep all the time in the lap dance room. Although last night here in Indianapolis, this young Asian babe kept me up . . . giving me lap dances.
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bang69
13 years ago
its all about $$$
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Cravey
13 years ago
I'll play the role of loyal opposition to some of the other responses. Why not? Keep your hand on your wallet, ask her out and see what happens. If you're careful, you'll have a dinner companion and maybe a sex partner. At some point things may get ugly, i.e.: money, and if that happens, cut and run. But in the interim, I don't see a huge downside as long as money doesn't become an issue.
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runrdude
13 years ago
As I recently discovered it is not always about the money. Just be sure you know what you want before you decide what to do.
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Clubber
13 years ago
vm,

ASSHOLE!!!!! :)
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jerikson40
13 years ago
I think it's pretty clear she's in love with you. And the cocaine...it's really easy to stop doing that stuff. So I'm sure she'll be really clean from now on. And I think it's totally wrong to suggest it's about money. I think she just wants to take you out and buy you a nice dinner. Y'know, because she likes you so much. And all the times you "lost touch" with her, I'm sure she just lost your number, and was looking all over trying to find it. And I'm sure when she seemed to be enjoying the make-out sessions as much as you were, that's when she really fell in love with you. So I'd say go for it. She's a keeper. Really. I'm serious.
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gatorfan
13 years ago
I stopped reading after Once upon
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