Conversation and smalltalk

5 comments

• farmerart

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  14 years ago

  george:
  
  I don't buy this at all. Self-confidence and initiative combined with knowledge of some subject is what makes small talk effective. Anyone who follows these formulaic rules comes across as a pseud. Most people have an excellent "bull shit detector" and they immediately tune out whenever encountering someone who applies these rules to normal human verbal intercourse. Natural spontaneity is always attractive.
• georgmicrodong

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  14 years ago

  Maybe, but I've met several non dancers as well who use some variation of this, and don't come across as bullshitters. After all, it's *small* talk, intended to pass the time and maybe provide a starter for more conversation.
  
  That said, slavish adherence to *any* formula is going to come across as fake. Using the guidelines as what they are, starting points, can give those who need a bit of help that little bit of extra confidence they need.
• CTQWERTY

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  14 years ago

  Probably much more improtant in the escort world. Some guys are just lonely for companionship and then a gal's ability to intelligently engage on a particular topic of interest can fill a void.
• gatorfan

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  14 years ago

  Small talk is the stripper saying she wants to fuck.
• dw.buck

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  14 years ago

  let teh stripper talk her head off give her the attention make her feel special then pop the question - wanna make me cum?