Three strikes, and you're out.
georgmicrodong
Just a fat, creepy old pervert.
Such potential, wasted. She cute, gives great head and seemed enthusiastic. But after engaging her services twice in the club, I thought it was time to see if anything OTC might be in the cards, and she seemed happy at about the extra opportunity to drain my wallet without having to share with the club; we even talked price, which based on what I know of the price structure at the club would net her about twice as much as a club visit, and options. However, three times now she's said "text me and we'll set something up" and three times she's not answered, completely ignoring me, with later explanations of "busy" or kid issues, or mom visiting. While it's certainly possible she's telling the truth, and I have no expectation of any kind of immediate reply, in the past, most girls have at least responded with a "sorry, can't" reply within a couple of hours or so.
So, I think I'll go back to the club, buy her a drink, and tell her that there's $ waiting for her when she wants it, and then leave. I'll seemwhat, if anything, she does.
So, I think I'll go back to the club, buy her a drink, and tell her that there's $ waiting for her when she wants it, and then leave. I'll seemwhat, if anything, she does.
Got something to say?
Start your own discussion
16 comments
I have not really encountered exactly what you are experiencing, gmd, but I am pretty sure I would not have your patience. The pure bad manners of not replying would be reason enough for me to pursue other prey.
BUT, give her another chance and be persistent and patient. Remember these girls lives aren't exactly like ours. When we make a commitment we usually follow like we would for anything else. But dancer lives are more unstructured and she might have some crazy obligation interferring and if/when that clears up she may be available. This approach has worked for me, so it's worth another shot. If she dosn't come through, she's identifying herself as a phony and you can forget about it.
unless i am really smitten with a dancer, i would not give her more than one chance, i'm not into playing games or wasting time, i have better things to do.
then she should be upfront and say so or she should just say she changed her mind.
That said, I still gave her the "ultimatum", though I didn't exactly couch it in those terms, just basically telling here I wouldn't bug her anymore, and when she was ready for what I was willing to spend, to give me a call. We'll see what happens.
FWIW, she doesn't strike me as being malicious about the whole thing, just inconsiderate. It's not like we made plans, and then she didn't show. She just didn't return my call to *make* plans. Not to mention, she has so far done everything I've asked her to, in the club, and for a reasonable price, so it's not like she's putting me off entirely.
As for wasting my time, I don't really see it that way. It's not like I'm in town for a only couple of nights, and only have a limited amount of time to engage someone. If it doesn't work out this weekend, it'll work out next, or maybe tomorrow, with her or with someone else. There's a another club down the road, and another phone number in my list.
I'm just no longer going to *pursue* her. :)